Oh, TJ, how are you doing? It's the worst week of the year, the week between Christmas and New years where there's nothing going on and the biggest news story features the CDC. I hope you're doing better than I am.

You know I don't I don't know if I am we're all going through it these are you know I

think because of what the reasons that you just said that there's

nothing for us to really do or focus on that much even though I for some reason feel

very overworked and busy doing shit.

Your chores aren't, they don't pay, so it doesn't really, I know it makes you feel that way,

but you're really just throwing your energy into the void, you know that.

Well, sometimes you have to do stuff that don't pay

Chris I'm I'm sorry I don't I don't know comprende senior part of being in a

modern relationship means that we all have to do our part and I am not doing my part enough

so says who says people I live with sometimes so you're telling me that both of your dogs spoke to you in English and said you're lazy? That's fucked up, bro. You need to get rid of those dogs. I told you.

You know, it's kind of, it's tough. Like the way I look at it is like there's a whole there's priority list and one person's

priority list is not always in line copacetic whatever you want to call it with

other people in your life and that that can be

the truth and that's something she looked at my parents list for me when I was a

junior in high school it didn't really line up with mine you know and and we've been able to maintain a relationship

That's nice well you know so sometimes the things that uh that I'm like you know what this can wait for another time it can't wait for other people

so this is the time of the year where if if other work and emails and things like that

are slowing down then I could finally focus on all the other exciting stuff like

getting a quote to fix a sprinkler system or cleaning an oven or you know all that stuff.

Look as a guy who takes out the trash four times a day because someone isn't into that part of the of the

chore list. I do understand we were coming from to some extent but I think we should focus on more positive things today

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