#281: Why A Soft Woman Controls Her Man EFFORTLESSLY (Few Will Understand This)
The Awake With Jake Show
Jake Woodard
5.0 • 819 Ratings
🗓️ 14 December 2025
⏱️ 10 minutes
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Summary
A soft woman doesn't control by force.
She controls through presence, polarity, and emotional intelligence. Most women are taught to lead, chase, explain, or manage men,
and then wonder why they feel exhausted, resentful, or unfulfilled.
In this video, I break down:
• Why softness is actually **power**, not weakness
• How feminine energy naturally inspires masculine devotion
• The subtle behaviors that make a man *want* to show up
• Why "trying harder" always backfires in relationships
Few women will understand this — because it requires unlearning everything modern dating taught you.
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| 0:00.0 | A soft and sexual woman will control her man effortlessly. |
| 0:06.3 | Few people will understand what I'm about to share with you. |
| 0:09.8 | And most of you will probably get offended or defensive about it |
| 0:12.9 | because they're going to say, well, if he was strong, then I would be soft. |
| 0:18.3 | If he was grounded, then I would not be so emotional. |
| 0:23.6 | If he was more masculine, then I would want to be sexual. |
| 0:28.5 | And they're going to want to put all the blame back on the man and say, if he was doing |
| 0:32.9 | this, then I would be that. |
| 0:35.0 | And I hear this all the time from women. |
| 0:36.8 | But the women that really understand this, |
| 0:39.3 | they understand where their influence lies. |
| 0:42.1 | They understand that they are the motivating factor for a man to change his behaviors. |
| 0:49.7 | Men respond to feminine energy. |
| 0:53.9 | Men are motivated by feminine energy. Let's bring nature into play |
| 0:58.0 | it first. If you look all through nature, you will find honeybees that will travel miles |
| 1:04.5 | to find a flower to pollinate. You will see bucks come into the r to find a dough who is in heat to mate with |
| 1:15.3 | and bring a baby into this world with. Right? If you go out on a Saturday night to a bar town, |
| 1:22.7 | you will find men chasing women. Men are motivated by feminine energy. And what happens is when that feminine |
| 1:33.5 | energy is removed from a man's marriage or relationship, he begins to place his energy elsewhere, |
| 1:42.6 | unfortunately, because he's not getting the nourishment |
| 1:45.5 | of the feminine in his relationship. |
| 1:48.6 | So maybe he starts overworking. |
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