relationships are the most powerful vehicle for transformation because of what they bring up.

They bring up her stuff.

Hello and welcome to another episode of the Mark Gross podcast.

So first off, I wanted to say thank you to all of you who are hitting subscribe,

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Britain shared. That's probably not your name, but that's your username. Dear Mark, I have never

left a podcast review,

but want to leave you one today to say thank you for all that you do to learn, understand,

and share with your listeners. You do it in such a way that makes our hearts light up with

truth and acceptance and laugh out loud with joyful enlightenment. You and Jillian Tarecki

have been my coaches through heartbreak,

divorce, sobriety, self-love and growth. And so hearing a podcast with you both had made my year.

If you haven't listened to that episode, it's so good. I've used your cards to create the love cards,

given them to friends, and I listen to your podcast on my daily dog walks, what you share guides

and speaks to my heart like so many millions

of others. And in this crazy world, you really are one of its living angels. Thank you for all that

you do, Alice in England. Alice, thank you so much. I so appreciate you. Thanks for taking the time

to leave the review. This week, I wanted to talk about something that I think really comes up

for us at least unconsciously a lot and where it moves into our patterns relationally.

And it is this reality that not everybody wants great love, not everybody wants an ecstatic

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