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The SelfWork Podcast

278 SelfWork: 15 Good Questions To Ask Your Potential Therapist

The SelfWork Podcast

Margaret Robinson Rutherford PhD

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

4.81.3K Ratings

🗓️ 15 April 2022

⏱️ 28 minutes

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Summary

Three times this week I was asked, "Just how do I interview a therapist?" So... I'm going to give you fifteen very specific, concrete, and legit questions to ask a potential therapist. It's important of course to note how that therapist is answering you and does their manner of talking with you seem warm and engaging? I hope this helps with any confusion  you might have, or at least, now you have ideas of what to ask.

The listener voicemail today is from a woman who’d read one of my blogpost articles on challenging or working through the shame that you've carried around, quite without rational or reason, because you felt invisible to others, and thought it was somehow your 'fault.'

So, in this episode, sponsored by Athletic Greens, we’ll focus on the very tangible and concrete topic of approaching a potential therapist. Sit back, relax, and hopefully learn how to talk to someone about becoming your therapist – what to ask, how to ask it, and other important facets of creating this very unique relationship in your life.

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The podcast episode also talking about the problem of feeling invisible. 

An Unquiet Mind written by Kay Redfield Jamison,

My first podcast episode on What Is Good Therapy?

An Open Counseling article explaining licensure and training differences between therapists

My podcast on whether to terminate therapy

The different family roles that you can adopt and play

You can hear more of many other topics by listening to my podcast, SelfWork with Dr. Margaret Rutherford. Subscribe to my website and receive one weekly newsletter including my weekly blog post and podcast! If you’d like to join my FaceBook closed group, then clickhere and answer the membership questions! Welcome!

My book entitled Perfectly Hidden Depression is available and you can order here! Its message is specifically for those with a struggle with strong perfectionism which acts to mask underlying emotional pain. But the many self-help techniques described can be used by everyone who chooses to begin to address emotions long hidden away that are clouding and sabotaging your current life.

And here's another way to send me a message! You can record by clicking below and ask your question or make a comment. You’ll have 90 seconds to do so and that time goes quickly. By recording, you’re giving SelfWork (and me) permission to use your voice on the podcast. I’ll look forward to hearing from you!

 

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

This is Selfwork, and I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford.

0:14.1

At Selfwork, we'll discuss psychological and emotional issues common in today's world

0:19.0

and what to do about them.

0:20.4

I'm Dr. Margaret, and Selfwork is a podcast dedicated to you taking just a few minutes today

0:26.2

for your own Selfwork.

0:29.8

Hello, and welcome to Selfwork.

0:31.8

I'm Dr. Margaret Rutherford.

0:33.1

I'm a clinical psychologist, and I've lived and worked in Favill, Arkansas for almost

0:37.6

30 years.

0:39.2

I started Selfwork about five and a half years ago.

0:41.8

You could probably hear the thunder out there today, but I started the podcast almost

0:46.2

six years ago because I wanted to extend the walls of my practice to several groups of

0:51.1

you, those who might already be interested in therapy or in therapy, to those of you

0:56.4

who just been diagnosed with something or you're having a relationship problem that you

1:00.8

just couldn't solve, but also to a third group of you, to those of you who may believe

1:06.4

certain things about therapy, that it's weak or that it's just for losers, but maybe you're

1:12.9

unhappy enough to listen to a podcast like Selfwork and give the idea of asking for help

1:18.5

a chance.

1:19.5

Now, Selfwork isn't therapy, but at the same time, you can certainly hear my thoughts on

1:23.8

different topics.

1:24.9

I'm welcome, all of you.

1:27.3

I'd outlined an episode today that was all about the quest for fame, or for most of us,

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