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Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

278 - Growing Through Criticism

Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

Multiamory, LLC

Sexuality, Education, Relationships, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.9970 Ratings

🗓️ 30 June 2020

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Being criticized is difficult, especially when it's a friend, partner, or family member providing the criticism. Today we're covering how to handle receiving criticism gracefully and learning how to improve yourself, be a better communicator, and bring people together instead of pushing them apart. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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On the side of people who know you but are more of this irrational or more reactive, she calls

0:07.1

frenemies, which she said, these are people who don't really want to see you improve but they know how to hurt you because they know you well or in her list of who this could be she includes

0:19.6

exes toddlers I love that and your toddlers undermining coworkers and yourself.

0:25.0

I was like ooh yy yy yy yy yy yy yy yy y yy yy yy yy yy yep welcome to the multi amory

0:29.8

podcast I'm jace I'm Emily and I'm dead occur. We believe in looking to the future of

0:35.2

relationships not maintaining the status quo of the past. So whether you're

0:39.5

monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we're here for you. I know I did.

0:55.0

forcing me to for myself to fit.

1:00.0

On this episode of the multi-amory podcast we're talking about how to continue to grow

1:09.3

and thrive when receiving criticism.

1:12.7

Especially criticism that comes from friends, partners,

1:16.7

or other allies.

1:18.6

When receiving criticism, it's common for people

1:20.5

to fight back with defensiveness and counter criticism or to freeze and shut down and give up.

1:26.8

Our social media even encourages this kind of thing by being more likely to show us conflict

1:31.4

rather than healthy examples.

1:33.7

So today we're exploring this incredibly important topic, discussing some of the challenges

1:39.1

in handling criticism well, as well as some concrete ways that you can learn to improve yourself, be a

1:45.2

better communicator and ally, and bring people together instead of pushing us

1:50.2

all further apart. Wow what a nice note to end on for that intro.

1:54.6

Let's just cut it there.

1:55.6

We're done, that's it.

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