Okay, maybe I'll make another video about this, but I wanted to say that if you're somebody that wants to increase their confidence, I highly recommend going out and looking good, but like looking very good, like taking, like making sure you look like good.

You know what I'm trying to say? Like makeup done, outfit is together, like look good, good.

And the reason why I say this builds confidence is because I'm just talked from my

personal experience. I feel like sometimes when I step out looking good, sometimes I get a

little nervous because I know that I'm going to get attention. Period. Point blank. Either

somebody's going to say something, people are going to talk to me or people just look at me, right? They may not even say anything. And sometimes you don't really want a lot of attention. You know, you're just going about your business, going to the store real quick. Like, there's sometimes where if I'm like, they am about to go out to this event and I got these heels on, I will purposely put on slippers because I don't want anybody to look at me wearing heels in the fucking store because I'm going to look good.

Anyways, I feel like if you're somebody or a woman out there that's like, hey, I want to work on my confidence, look good intentionally. Put that makeup on, put that nice house, cute as sexy house outfit you've been wanting to wear and go out and, you know, and push your limit in a way. So now it's kind of normal for me to go out and look good when i'm going out like if i'm just going to the grocery store whatever you know i'm

trying to say but to go out and like actually like look really good and really nice like now it's

normal for me it doesn't really scare me as much just depends on the night but i don know. I think people haven't talked about that. I think sometimes when they think somebody looks good, it's like, oh, like, I don't know, it's like they already have the confidence or something, but I don't know if people really talk about, like, what you go through in your mind as you're looking good or as you're, you know're getting yourself together or like walking by people

and maybe thinking about oh what does this person think or i don't know sometimes people stare at me

and i don't know what they're thinking but usually it's like good news they're always like oh you

look so nice or they say something sweet but um you know i don't know so just because you look

nice doesn't mean that you're automatically confident.

And I feel like maybe people believe that just because somebody looks nice, they are automatically

confident and that's not necessarily the truth.

So when I was giving the advice to women if they want to increase their confidence to look

extra nice, I was really talking about you getting the spotlight on you and being used to having that spotlight. It's very easy to blend in. And there's nothing wrong with blending it. Sometimes I enjoy blending in. I don't want the attention. But when you are building your confidence and you decide to put the spotlight on you, meaning you decide to look good, your outfit is good,

your makeup is on point. Like, you look really good. You're going to have a spotlight on you.

So how do you interact? Like, how does your body adapt to having a spotlight on you? How does

your body adapt to people giving you compliments? How does your body adapt to people looking at you and you don't know what they're thinking? Like how does your body adapt to that?

And I was saying that over time, the confidence is going to increase. And at some point, you're going to be able to use your beauty to your advantage.

Because people treat you better when you look good. And that's just a fact that I've experienced multiple times.

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