275-Wives, Organize Your Lives for Passion

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Christianity

4.7 • 589 Ratings

🗓️ 20 January 2021

⏱️ 31 minutes

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Summary

Sex motivates us to be the men and women He wants us to be.

Men have to discipline themselves to be more like Jesus for her to want to have sex with him. For a woman to desire sex, she has to be at peace, confident, and aligned with God's priorities in who/what gets her time.

So, this podcast is directed towards women because often women are the organizers and they are the ones who tend to struggle to have passion. But what if there was a way to actually organize your life so that passion is a consistent desire and fulfilling activity?

That's what I want to talk to you about.

As Jesus followers, we are invited to do things that aren't the societal norms.

I think that passion for women is fairly "natural" for the first 2-3 years of a relationship/marriage. And after that it requires intentionality.

She just stops feeling it... nothing against that specific husband necessarily, she switches to life, busyness, mom - mode. And the attracting-that-guy-mode which heightened libido fades.

BUT! As a wife you can organize your life, your thoughts, and your pursuits in a way that causes you to desire sex, but it requires intentionality for women.

I vowed that on our wedding day, and it will never be negotiable. That's called exercising faithfulness to my marriage vows. Is it a "duty"? That's a gross way of thinking about loving a person---not to mention the most important person of your life.

Is a husband accepting, encouraging, and listening to his wife's heart a duty? It would be gross if that's how he thought of it. But, both are expectations of faithfulness as a married person.

Both are opportunities for them to bless each other and fulfill God's will at the same time.

Blessings,

Belah

PS If you'd like to join the free training for women all about confidence in intimacy -- which will be available for a limited time -- go to delightyourmarriage.com/sc

If you'd like to find other free resources go to delightyourmarriage.com/free

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast.
0:05.0	You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy.
0:11.0	Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about.
0:17.0	Delight your marriage.
0:19.0	Hi there and welcome. This is Bella. Delight your marriage.
0:23.8	Hi there and welcome.
0:26.7	This is Bella and I want to thank you so much for joining.
0:30.3	So today this message is directed towards women.
0:35.4	And the reason is, is because I have an awesome program.
0:41.0	I am relaunching called Intimate Freedom. And so far, the women that are in the program are just thriving. It's beautiful to see their marriages just come to life and their libido
0:48.2	increasing and their excitement around intimacy growing and just being able to share this journey with other Christ-centered
0:57.4	women that are really loving their husbands well and wanting to live in accordance with God's
1:04.8	will for their lives. And so if you are interested in that program, I've got actually some
1:09.9	free videos coming up that are
1:12.4	just, I think, phenomenal training. And it's all about confidence in intimacy because I think
1:18.5	those things go hand in hand for you to have freedom. And so those trainings you can get
1:25.8	at delight your marriage.com slash SC.
1:29.9	And when you go there, you'll sign up and those free trainings are going to come straight
1:35.1	to your inbox.
1:36.4	So be aware.
1:37.5	They're going to be available for a limited time.
1:39.5	So I definitely want you to sign up so you don't miss those.
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