275: The Case of the Mysterious Hotel Panties | Feedback Friday
The Jordan Harbinger Show
Jordan Harbinger
4.8 • 12.4K Ratings
🗓️ 8 November 2019
⏱️ 47 minutes
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Summary
Your fiance travels and stays in hotels at different locations every week for work. The other day, you found black Victoria's Secret panties in your laundry. The thing it, you don't wear Victoria's Secret. So you approached him and said, "I need help understanding how this is in our belongings." He said this is a truly unfortunate situation because he doesn't know how it got there. You closely watched him for any signs that would alarm you as hints of lying. You found none. Is there any surefire way to know if a significant other is cheating beyond what amounts to circumstantial evidence? We'll try to unlock this and more on the latest Feedback Friday!
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- You're a single dad who shares equal custody of a five-year-old son. His mom and new husband have offered the option to stay in a trailer on their property. You all get along great and this would be convenient for everyone, but is it an appropriate arrangement?
- As a leader in the workplace, you helped someone you thought was an amazing employee get promoted. Now you find that this person is mocking you behind your back and taking sick days once a month. You went to bat for this person and you feel betrayed. What now?
- You've been using techniques in Six-Minute Networking for talking to strangers, but what can you do when people aggressively try to shut down a conversation? Should you just call it a loss, cut bait, and move on, or try to break the dam a different way?
- You broke up with your girlfriend of four years because she started having feelings for another woman. Neither of you want this, but you're not able to continue loving her and only her knowing that she doesn't love you and only you back. Where do you go from here?
- You're worried that your significant other's negativity is rubbing off on you; your social life is suffering and you haven't felt like yourself lately. Even though you still care about them, you feel breaking up is the best way to give them the time and space they need. But how?
- You just started a new career. You want to start off strongly, but you already feel intimidated and think perhaps you have a little imposter syndrome. What can...
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger, and I'm here with producer |
| 0:08.7 | Jason to Philipo. On the Jordan Harbinger Show, we decode the stories, secrets, and |
| 0:13.4 | skills of the world's most brilliant and interesting people, and turn their wisdom |
| 0:17.2 | into practical advice that you can use to impact your own life and those around you. |
| 0:21.4 | In this week, we had Scott Adams, the creator of Dilbert, and now I don't even know what |
| 0:27.0 | you would call him. He's not a political pundit, but he certainly, if thinker, we're |
| 0:30.5 | discussing mental models in ways we get stuck in poor logic and reasoning. What he calls |
| 0:35.2 | loser think. We also spoke with Super Agent Darren Prince and his forest gump like story |
| 0:40.6 | of sobriety and his crazy career as a sports agent to some of the biggest names in the |
| 0:44.3 | game. I also write every so often on the blog. The latest post is about why you should not |
| 0:48.8 | trust your intuition much of the time. You can find out why, backed by science, not |
| 0:53.8 | just my ridiculous self help, dork claims. That's at Jordan Harbinger.com slash articles. |
| 0:59.7 | I'd love to hear what you think about that. Make sure you've had a look and listen |
| 1:02.4 | to everything we created for you this week. Of course, our primary mission here on the |
| 1:06.4 | Jordan Harbinger Show is to pass along our guests and our own experiences and insights |
| 1:12.0 | along to you. In other words, the real purpose of the show is to have conversations directly |
| 1:15.6 | with you. That's what we're going to do today and every Friday here on Feedback Friday. |
| 1:20.5 | I just want to place one brick in the structure that makes up your life. That's really what |
| 1:24.5 | this podcast is about. You can always reach us Friday at Jordan Harbinger.com. By the way, |
| 1:30.5 | apologies to the 34,000 or so of you who accidentally got a bonus episode and put that in |
| 1:36.3 | air quotes with the founder of NetSuite. That was supposed to go someplace else. Some of |
| 1:40.2 | you said you enjoyed it for what it's worth, but if you saw that and you wondered what |
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