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10% Happier with Dan Harris

275: Improving Your Relationships, Buddhist Style | Martine Batchelor

10% Happier with Dan Harris

10% Media, LLC

Dan Harris, Health & Fitness, Mindfulness, Dharma, Mental Health, Meditation

4.612.2K Ratings

🗓️ 19 August 2020

⏱️ 85 minutes

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Summary

This episode is a mix of the technical, the practical, and the delightful. We’re talking about a meditation technique that can impact relationships, your biases, and how you handle things such as lying, sex, alcohol, and social media. The key word here is the ancient term "vedana." And it involves, literally, any feeling state we experience. Basically, everything that comes up in your mind has one of at least three feeling tones: pleasant, unpleasant, or neutral. When you’re mindless, a pleasant feeling tone can lead to overindulgence or clinging; unpleasant can lead to aversion; and neutral can lead to numbing out. Unchecked, this unfolding process can have disastrous results, as it pertains to your reactions to food, other people, you name it. My guest today is going to tell us about how to bring mindfulness to this aspect of our experience. Martine Batchelor was a Buddhist nun in Korea for 10 years. She’s written a number of books, including The Path to Compassion and Let Go: A Buddhist Guide to Breaking Free of Habits. She lives in France, with her husband Stephen Batchelor, who was a guest on the show not long ago. Where to find Martine Batchelor online: Website: https://martinebatchelor.org/ Martine Batchelor's Dharma Talks - https://dharmaseed.org/teacher/119/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/martinebatch Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/martine.batchelor Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/martinebatch/ We care deeply about supporting you in your meditation practice, and feel that providing you with high quality teachers is one of the best ways to do that. Customers of the Ten Percent Happier app say they stick around specifically for the range of teachers, and the deep wisdom they impart, to help them deepen their practice. For anyone new to the app, we've got a special discount just for you. If you're an existing subscriber, we thank you for your support. To claim your discount, visit tenpercent.com/august Other Resources Mentioned: More on Vedana Understanding the Five Aggregates Can Help You Get Out of Your Head: https://tricycle.org/magazine/five-aggregates/ Meditation Month 2019: Feeling Tone and Noting Sensations: https://tricycle.org/trikedaily/meditation-month-feeling-tone/ Deconstructing the "Self": https://www.lionsroar.com/deconstructing-the-self/ To learn more about and practice with feeling tone, check out Joseph's meditation on Feeling Tone in the Ten Percent Happier app: https://10percenthappier.app.link/FeelingTonePod Additional Resources: Ten Percent Happier Live: https://tenpercent.com/live Coronavirus Sanity Guide: https://www.tenpercent.com/coronavirussanityguide Free App access for Frontline Workers: https://tenpercent.com/care Full Shownotes: https://www.tenpercent.com/podcast-episode/martine-batchelor-275 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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0:00.0

Hey, it's Dan. As you may already know, May is mental health awareness month, and while mental health

0:05.0

is important every month, this month is an opportunity to share some resources that can really help.

0:10.9

So in that spirit, I want to tell you about some of the other podcasts I really admire and

0:15.9

respect in this space. The podcast's meditative story, a slight change of plans, last day, and on

0:24.6

being are all doing incredible work to advance mental health and explore the human condition.

0:30.1

And throughout this month, I'm going to share a little bit more about each one of those shows.

0:34.2

So this week, I want to share one of my favorite podcasts. It's called Meditative Story, and it

0:38.8

blends immersive storytelling with gentle mindfulness prompts to help you improve your inner weather.

0:44.4

As you know, my own mental health improvements really began in earnest when I found meditation

0:50.4

for myself. And since then, it's really become an invaluable tool to help me deal with anxiety

0:55.4

and depression and just the regular ups and downs of life. So the format of meditative story really

1:00.4

feels like an intuitive way to experience mindfulness. Every episode is also wrapped in a breathtaking

1:06.5

musical score, which I personally find pretty relaxing. Some of the storytellers over on meditative

1:11.2

story are people you might already know, including Sharon Salzburg, Chris DeTippet, David Duchovny,

1:17.3

and me. I actually recorded an episode with them myself not too long ago. Others are newer voices,

1:23.1

but every episode is really extremely cool. So many people who listen to the show have said that

1:28.4

it's just a crucial resource for them in supporting their own mental health, and maybe you'll end up

1:33.0

following meditative story wherever you get your podcast. Hello, I'm Hannah. And I'm Syrte.

1:38.4

And we are the hosts of A Redhanded, a weekly True Crime Podcast. Every week on Redhanded,

1:43.2

we get stuck into the most talked about cases. From Idaho student killings, the Delphi

1:47.6

murders, and our recent rundown of the Murdoch saga. Last year, we also started a second weekly show,

1:54.0

Shorthand, which is just an excuse for us to talk about anything we find interesting because

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