272: Understanding Our Sexual Needs For A Better Relationship

Relationship Advice

Colter Bloxom

Relationships, Mental Health, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.4 • 1.7K Ratings

🗓️ 23 October 2020

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

We all have ideal sexual ideas for what we'd like to see in our relationship. Often these ideals are not met, or understood, resulting in relationship issues. Listen to today's show to learn how to identify your sexual needs, communicate them with your partner and improve your relationship. In this episode, we discuss relationship advice topics that include: What to do when you're sexually dissatisfied in your relationship Why sexuality can disproportionately affect relationship satisfaction Understanding your sexual ideals and communicating them with your partner Learning about yourself as a sexual being in order to improve the sex in your relationship Why society sometimes minimizes our sexual needs And much more! Dr. David Ley is a psychologist and sex therapist who has appeared in the New York Times, The Daily Show, Playboy Magazine, as well as publishing numerous books and research articles on sexual issues. For more information on our guest, and for the episode links visit: https://idopodcast.com/272 Spark My Relationship Course: Get $100 off our online course. Visit SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! Podcast Series: Love Under Quarantine Sign up for our 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge here: 14 Day Happy Couples Challenge Join our 5 Day Couples Appreciation Challenge here: idopodcast.com/appreciation Do you want to hear more on this topic? Continue the conversation on our Facebook Group here: Love Tribe Help Support The Show! Donate Here. Sponsors Trivia Star: Trivia Star is offering you 2,500 coins and 500 gems when you download and play. Search Trivia Star in the Apple App Store or Google Store and download Trivia Star for FREE today! AndStillIVote.org: Join the fight for voting rights today! Paid for by The Leadership Conference Education Fund. If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a review in iTunes? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Chase & Sarah Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	And Take me to the place in the middle of the sun. Hey Love Tribe.
0:30.0	What's going on guys?
0:31.3	Hope you're having a great day. We've got another awesome show for you where welcome back Dr David Lay who came on the show super early on and I do podcast. I think it's been maybe five years now.
0:46.0	I think it was right toward the beginning
0:48.0	after we took our little hiatus,
0:50.0	right when we started again, we interviewed them.
0:52.0	So that was a good four or five years ago now.
0:54.5	The Stella hiatus when our daughter was born.
0:59.3	Exactly. Well Dr. David Lay is a psychologist and sex therapist who has appeared in the New York Times on the Daily Show and even Playboy magazine, as well as publishing numerous books and research articles on sexual issues.
1:16.8	And today we talk about sex obviously with Dr. Lay and we talk about ways to meet our partner's sexual ideals and also identify
1:27.2	our own ideals as part of this process and Dr. Lay gave us a lot of great information, not only with conversations around sex, but ways
1:35.4	that we can have these conversations around communication, chores at the house, you name
1:41.2	it.
1:42.2	So a lot of great tools to apply to your relationship around sexuality
1:48.2	and sexual ideals but even other things as well.
1:53.0	Yeah, and I think the biggest thing I took away from this is,
1:56.0	and he kind of ends it, wraps it up with it,
1:58.0	is it really acceptance of your partner in their sexuality
2:01.0	and how important it is to communicate your needs with your partner and to be
2:07.6	open and not judgmental of your partner's sexual desires.
2:12.2	So I think it's a really important takeaway from the show,
2:15.2	but of course you should listen to the whole thing because there's a lot of great takeaways from today's show.
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