Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Grown ass women on film, our homegirl Lacresha Berry joins us as we review the Netflix film 40 year old version, talk about the politics of being grown with no kids (there are politics, we promise!) Black New York, sex and mad other sh!t. This week’s hotlist - Afro’s and Audio festival was lit. That 30 for 30 list is complete trash. Big Toni Morrison energy, Posse scholarships, struggle porn, Charm City Kings and Black New York in black and white. From hiphop to headwraps, and everything in between. Creative gatekeepers, the MTA, teenagers shooting their shot, and much much more... SPONSOR Good Neighbor www.goodneighbor.care 855-355-7001 EPISODE TIMESTAMPS Libations: 5:06 Donation libations: 8:52 Affirmations: 11:05 The Forty Year Old Version: 15:16 Sh!t we liked 20:40 Sh!t we thought was meh 45:07 Is 30 under 30 toxic? 58:52 Dealing with parents & mortality 1:07:44 Happily single and childless but then… 1:13:44 Dating 1:23:30 Toxic white rooms 1:25:51 Black Trauma Porn & media 1:37:08 Grown and trying new sh!t 1:44:28 Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! Link up with Berry on the socials and check out her website: Website http://www.berryandconyc.com/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lacresha.berry/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHSoE0E0fgskUIJiU-QBr-g Twitter: https://twitter.com/berryandcompany Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/berryandco/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@berryandco?lang=en OUR WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES [email protected] DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj Where to Donate Your Money and Time to Help Protestors: https://nyulocal.com/where-to-donate-your-money-and-time-to-help-protesters-ef2727d7a9d2 How to continue support for the #EndSARS movement in Nigeria https://metro.co.uk/2020/10/29/how-to-continue-support-for-the-end-sars-movement-in-nigeria-13487714/ Queen’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/CXV9ZDWZ3PP9?ref_=wl_share J.’s Amazon wishlist: https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1NP09USMPJ0TB?ref=cm_sw_em_r_wl_ip_VEVWdvdDDemm Send us snail mail: Tea with Queen and J. P.O. Box 1617 229 East 85th Street New York, NY 10028 NOTES & EXTRA TEA Follow Afros and Audio on instagram https://www.instagram.com/afrosandaudio/ Listen to Radha Blank explain why she decided on a black and white movie on Raging Gracefully podcast. Convo begins at the 22:25 mark: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/raging-gracefully-presents-conversation-radha-blank/id1416778670?i=1000495851044 This week’s hashtag: #40YearOldVersion #FYOV #FortyYearOldVersion This week’s closing clip features Rahda Blank's rapping debut in The 40 Year Old Version https://www.netflix.com/title/80231356 This episode was created, hosted and produced by Naima Lewis Muhammad & Janicia Francis Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Opening song by Ohene Cornelius Segment music by Chad Milner