What up guys? Jamie Grace here. Welcome to Wait It Out, a podcast about dating,

relationships, and other things worth waiting for. We are going to jump into today's

question. It's from C and it's on Instagram. She said up until about two years ago I never had a guy

express even expressed interest in me and I was never the one to chase them for

their attention. I'm 22 and I still haven't had a serious relationship before, nothing more than three months, but after using online dating, I've had guys who have expressed interest. I've also haven't had sex yet, but I've definitely fallen into sexual sin.

When I was with these guys, they would constantly compare me to their exes and tell me I needed to lose weight.

It left me feeling worthless and not good enough, especially since I felt like I gave a piece of myself to them

and spit in parentheses through sexual sin.

I ended up chasing them in order to gain their attention

and affection.

It's been a few months since I last talked to a guy,

but I still have feelings of worthlessness and wanting to be with these

guys who treated me with no respect. I also feel like I'm never going to be enough for the guy I'm

eventually going to marry because of what I've done. So I have a few questions for you. How would you

suggest dealing with the feelings of worthlessness and shame? How do I move on from

thinking about these guys? All right, see, I'm not sure if I'm going to answer your questions because a couple other things

stood out to me, and I think that you, I think there are certain things you think are your questions,

but then there are other things that I feel like are more pressing

issues than the specific questions that you gave me but don't worry I'll at least

loop back to them at the end and try to recap but this is this is what I'm

thinking because there's something that you put in here that I want to address right away.

You put, I also feel like I'm never going to be enough for the guy I'm eventually going to marry because of what I've done.

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