271-Use Challenge To Change Your Marital Culture

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.7 • 589 Ratings

🗓️ 16 December 2020

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

When we have a warm, loving culture in a family, passionate intimacy is the result. Or is it the cause?

If you're listening to this in the present, our world is in many challenges and the holidays may look different than they ever have for your family.

How can we see this as a gift?

If you're a husband...
-you have an opportunity to shift the culture of your marriage to one that attracts your wife towards frequency, engagement, and freedom in intimacy.

If you're a wife...
-you have an opportunity to shift your intimate interactions to one which attracts your husband to be a man of the fruits of the spirit, romantic, and the spiritual leader.

Either party can make important changes.

But changes are hard and risky. Risking looking silly. Risking being laughed at or judged because this is outside of your "norm".

Luckily in the midst of the challenge, there is a huge opportunity to redefine your "norm". Redefine the culture of your marriage.

Making a culture that actually brings you two together rather than tears you two apart.

That's my invitation today: look at this challenge as a gift.

During a challenge, everything can change.

You can use this as a jumping-off point for your entire marital culture to change: warmth, laughter, playfulness, and safety as well as passion, freedom, and frequency in intimacy.

This challenge is truly an opportunity for dramatic changes in your marriage.

Love and blessings,
Belah

PS - Husbands, I have advice for you if you'd like to get your wife involved in my material: www.delightyourmarriage.com/advice

PPS - Wives, I have a Free (for now) training for you about Seductive Confidence... head over to delightyourmarriage.com/sc

Transcript

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. Delight your marriage.
0:41.0	All right, welcome. This is Bella. I'm so grateful that you're joining me. So I'm so excited because right now it is the holiday season. Christmas is almost here. And whether you are quarantining or you decided to travel or you've got limited contact with people,
0:50.6	I invite you to utilize this time of transition around the holidays. It's a little bit different.
0:57.0	I encourage you to allow this time to shift the culture of your marriage.
1:04.1	Now, before I dive into that, I'd like you to get a couple of free resources from me.
1:10.3	First of all, for husbands, if you are interested in introducing your wife to my work,
1:12.2	because the holidays are here.
1:18.7	This is a perfect opportunity to say, you know, honey, for Christmas, would you be willing to watch a free training? And if you and your wife have a healthy good relationship, that's a great opportunity to do that.
1:29.4	If you don't have a healthy, safe, good relationship where she would be receptive to that.
1:34.2	I encourage you go to delightyourmarriage.com slash advice for husbands.
1:40.5	All right. So for wives, let me just mention that free training that I've just done. And it was
1:47.6	incredible for so many women to go through and they just got so much value out of it. Even
1:53.3	previous clients were saying that it was extremely helpful for them. So you can go to delight your marriage.com slash SC for that free training about seductive confidence.
2:07.5	So I really encourage you to do that, especially now.
2:10.7	I'm not sure how long it's going to be available.
2:12.6	So do it as soon as you can.
2:14.8	All right.
2:15.8	So let's talk about shifting the culture right now during transition.
2:30.1	So if you are listening to me in the present, you are probably impacted by COVID.
2:37.1	And maybe for a few more years, who knows how long it's going to be.
2:41.4	But what I would encourage you to do is use this shift in life and lifestyle to actually shift the culture of your marriage. Because we can use external stimuli
2:55.8	to either impact us in a positive way or in a negative way. I love the quote, I guess the quote
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