All right, so today's going to be some tough love, some real talk for you and

might be selling yourself short in a certain area of your life.

This was definitely my situation where I felt like I was surrounded by people

that did not lift me up, especially in the beginning of my business, in the beginning of me

pushing for huge things in life. And the revelation kind of came to me when I was going through

a very similar situation as what you're going through right now. I was following a 31 day

journey and one of the days was basically to make a vision board and she explained how she,

the first time she made a vision board, she was like on her bed in her bedroom and she had her

best friend over and they went through and they like cut out magazine cutouts and they made their

vision boards together. And I literally, it took my breath away in the worst way possible that I just

realized that there was nobody in my life good friends families whatever that not only would not

want to build a vision board with me or a dream board that wouldn't know what it was

and that would probably laugh at me if they found out I was doing that and that was the day that I

realized that I really needed to assess who I was surrounding myself with and how much the people

around me were lifting me up and you know you might feel that the biggest goal that your friend's circle

has right now is to go out for drinks on a Friday night. That was my situation. Where are we going

to go for drinks on a Friday night instead of what are we doing in terms of goals and aspirations

and where are we going in life and people that, you know, elevated you. And that was really something

that I took to heart. And I started to realize that you are

the average of the five people that you hang around with most. So I want you to think about the five

people that you hang around with the most, whether it be your coworkers, your family, your friends,

and what the conversations look like. One of the greatest quotes that I

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