Okay, Naddy, it is such a pleasure and a joy to have you here today.

I'm so excited to talk to you again,

selfishly because I just love to learn from you,

but also because I can't wait to share you with my audience.

So for anyone who's not familiar with you already, can you just give us a brief rundown of who you are and what you do?

Yeah, so I'm Naddy. My full name is Natal and Lewis, but no one ever gets that right. So we just own Naddy and we love it that way. I work with emotional intelligence and emotional performance and my background is as a speaker and a trainer and a coach. I've actually had the privilege of speaking all over the world.

I've spoken 38 different countries to over a million people and have written a book and have engaged in this kind of work of really understanding human performance and what drives it.

And it is, it's my work and my passion and it's personal and it's spiritual and it's just something that I get full fulfillment out of is working with individual people every day to help them understand what they feel so that they don't have to be afraid of their own life and so that they can go build something that they really, really want and they can start to feel a little bit of empowerment that they can happen to life

instead of life happening to them. I love that and you are so talented at

pulling that out of people like I watched you do that we went to Mexico a few weeks ago

and the transformation that you created in

the room of women when we got really particular and specific about who we are and what

we're doing was really just I've never seen a

shift in energy like that before in a group of powerful women the way that you

you know led that so maybe let's start there and I was fascinated by how

much you focus on the identity of a person. So why is that important to you? Why is that something that you start with when you're teach? Or maybe you just started with us, but with with our group it was very powerful. Yeah, well I love to start with identity because really

identity is the root of motivation. All motivation for why we do anything that we do really stems from identity.

And whether we're conscious of that identity

and we're doing it on purpose,

or whether it's just something that's been

bled into us over time, we tend to act in alignment with who we believe truly that we are.

Take the person who wakes up and believes absolutely I am tired. How do they act? Yeah, tired. What do they believe about themselves? That life is exhausting. What's the picture they hold in their mind that that everything is going to take a long time that everything they're doing is hard that day that nothing is going right and they own I am tired and there's no motivation where's the motivation when we're owning I am tired, oh, I want to go to the store and I want to get this and I want to finish this project and I want to play with my kids?

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