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The Connected Life

267: Justin and Abi's Fight

The Connected Life

Justin Stumvoll

Coaching, Love, Christian, Selfhelp, Christianity, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Relationships, Romance, Health, Spirituality

4.92.6K Ratings

🗓️ 12 February 2024

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

Disconnections in relationships are normal and to be expected. Yet, for many of us, the disconnections we often saw modeled to us growing up didn’t end well. For so many, the experiences we’ve been exposed to are filled with unresolved pain that ends in further distance or no acknowledgement of the real problems at all. Because of this, being present in other people’s conflict can be anxiety inducing, sending us into fight, flight, freeze, or fawn responses. But what if we could sit down in the midst of someone’s messiness and realize that everything can truly be okay?

In this very candid episode Abi and Justin have taken their gloves off and they’re ready to brawl. While sitting down to record a new podcast episode they find themselves disagreeing about the content, sending them into a triggered meltdown, and an adult time out. After sending their producer home, they bravely return to the studio to discuss their disconnect in real time in front of the cameras. In a moment that could be utter disaster, they share their unfiltered feelings as they pursue reconnection and discuss the ways they’ve grown in conflict.

If you’ve ever had trouble reconnecting in a relationship you’ll find this episode deeply relatable and freeing. Come take a listen and let the high stakes in conflict melt away!

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Life isn't perfect and neither are we.

0:05.0

But we know how to face our fears and have some fun.

0:10.0

And talk about all the messiest things of life.

0:12.9

Like the messiest things.

0:15.4

Get connected to yourself, get connected to others,

0:18.5

and get connected to the life right in front of you.

0:21.5

This is the connected life with Justin and Abby. That's you.

0:26.0

And you.

0:27.0

Hey Connected Life Friends!

0:30.0

Justin Abbey here.

0:32.0

If it's friends and not peeps you feel like you've changed it.

0:37.0

I was going to open this one with saying, well, it's Deja vu here. Ou, who deja vu what do you mean we are repeating past patterns yes I was just

0:50.0

thinking about this is our first our first round of recording episodes on video.

0:56.5

Which our last one went fantastic.

0:59.8

Yeah, but do you remember when we decided to create this podcast and we had some fantastic ideas?

1:05.6

Oh my goodness.

1:06.9

And then when we sat down to record we got in a huge fight.

1:11.1

We did.

1:12.3

And so we had to stop and figure out what to do with the fight and then we recorded

1:17.6

a podcast on our fight instead of what we're going to start the podcast with just to be real and authentic.

1:23.4

Okay, I literally did not remember that until you told me in this moment.

1:28.0

Yeah, I'm like, oh God, life is just repeated cycles that never end.

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