What's up guys? This Jamie Grace, welcome to wait it out a podcast about dating, relationships, and other things worth waiting for.

Today's question comes from N via Instagram DMs and you can send me your question to at Jamie Grace H on Instagram via

DM or by downloading the app anchor a nchohr it's a free app and you can

click call in or message and you can send in your question via audio but like

I said this one comes from Instagram and here is her message she says hello Jamie I'm a huge fan and your

music has helped me through really sour days God bless you and the work that you do

thank you so much girl in all caps caps, what do you think? I've known

this guy for four years. Oh wait no, I've known this guy four years. Okay. We

started out as friends till I started developing feelings for him. I told him we should stay away from each other

just to clear my head,

but he said it was okay that he liked me too.

We decided to be good friends and just enjoy each other's company

till I found out he had a girlfriend.

What?

That's not part of that was me say. I

suspected and asked him severely about that particular girl and he has insisted they

were just friends. Uh-uh.

Y'all, I'm already not.

Okay, sorry, back to the message.

I felt betrayed and used.

I've been struggling with myself worth since then.

We continued talking and I've been working on forgiving him because he really hurt me.

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