You're listening to the Vibrins Happy Women podcast, episode number 264. We're talking about relationships

and how to make sure your relationship patterns are healthy. Stay tuned. Hi, I'm Jen Ritey, and this

podcast is for women who want to feel more vibrant, happy, aligned, and alive. You'll gain the emotional, physical, and spiritual tools you need to get your sparkle back

and ensure that depression, anxiety, and struggle don't rule your life.

Welcome to the Vibrant Happy Women Podcast.

Hey, friends, I am honored and happy you're listening to the podcast today. I'm talking with a

great friend, Rebecca Kay, whom I met in the Vibrant Happy Women Coach certification. Rebecca is a mom of

three and she has been divorced twice. And when I first met her in the certification, she shared, you know,

in one of those early weeks when we were learning the basics of how to be a coach and how to use

thought tables in the feel it to healet method, she shared that she had some shame around having

been divorced twice. And as we do in the coach certification, I talk to her

and the other students about how often in the coaching world, in the world of helping other people,

we tend to do best when we turn our mess into our message. I really believe that each of us have had experiences that if we get past

them and heal from them, we can then help others with those same situations and experiences.

And the right people will resonate with your message if they're meant to learn from you.

And really, in the end, to help another person, you just need to be a step ahead of them

on some path of healing. So, of course, a lot of people who listen to my podcast and follow my

work may have some kids who struggle

because that's been a message I've had.

Or maybe they've struggled with elements of their marriage, another struggle I've had.

Or stay-at-home moms who have lost themselves, another part of my message, which was created

from my mess, right?

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