Fewers do bring some natural strengths just by way of kind of being built that way.

Why thanks, Stetaker.

Thank you for like finding those strengths even though maybe it's difficult.

Welcome to the Mult-amory podcast.

I'm Jace.

I'm Emily.

And I'm Dedicher.

We believe in looking to the future of relationships,

not maintaining the status quo of the past.

So whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, swinging, casually dating, or if you just do relationships differently, we see you and we're here for you. Fongs I know I did.

Forson made up for myself to fit.

On this episode of the multi-ammery podcast,

we're talking about chewers and spewers, which are some terms that we came up with, but otherwise

this is known as being an external processor or an internal processor. We're going to be

discussing how to tell what your processing and thinking style may be,

the unique strengths and challenges that you may experience when communicating,

some misconceptions about processing styles, and how to cope if you're in a relationship with someone

who processes very differently from you.

So there's a surprising number of blogs out there about this and blogs that seem to me very much written from a place of desperation

You know like titles like how to survive when you're married to an external processor or like yes, yeah, or like how do I deal when I'm in a relationship with an internal processor stuff like that

And there's a lot of articles out there that do present information about like that

and there's a lot of articles out there that do present information about both types,

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