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Delight Your Marriage

262-Her Anxiety + His Masturbation Transformed to Frequent Intimacy! Interview with Captain

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.7589 Ratings

🗓️ 6 October 2020

⏱️ 38 minutes

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Summary

This interview is with a man who had suffered in intimacy in his marriage for 14 years. 
She had intense anxiety (I've been there!) and it made intimacy very difficult for both of them. Sex would happen maybe 1x a month, but it was never something they could talk about. And masturbation was something he turned to alleviate the loneliness. 

Now they make love 3x per week--and she initiates 90% of the time! That is a manifestation of both of their courage and healing for both of them.

What happened?

Well, it all started with Steve the rooster. This is a good story. So...

Step #1 - Buy a rooster
Step #2 - Invite your mom over
Step #3 - Just kidding... :P 

But, there are fantastic keys in his story and the process they went through to get to the other side.
 
One important note I share at the end:

If you are a husband and you want your marriage transformed like Captain's be sure you... 

...don't accidentally undermine your wife's confidence.

That is exactly the topic I'll be speaking to on this weekend's Men's Masterclass. 

If you're not already, sign up for LIVE, FREE Men's Masterclass on Friday, Saturday, and Sunday!


Looking forward to speaking with you soon!

Love, 
Belah

PS Don't forget to sign up for the LIVE, FREE Men's Masterclass, sign up here with me THIS weekend!
 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast.

0:05.0

You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy.

0:11.0

Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about.

0:17.0

Delight your marriage.

0:19.0

All right. Welcome, welcome. Thank you so much for joining me. This is Bella Rose.

0:25.1

And I am so excited. This weekend is the weekend of the free live men's master class.

0:36.6

It is so exciting. Oh my gosh. So there is such great content. And my

0:42.4

prayer is really that people's lives would be changed. Their whole lives would be changed on

0:49.6

this weekend's live masterclass. I'm going to be there giving it my all and you get a front row

0:58.1

seat from the convenience of your own couch. So just for men and really to focus, bring your pen

1:06.8

and paper, you know, ask God to be with you. And, yeah, be in a private place, quiet,

1:14.1

be able to focus in. I think it's going to be awesome. All righty. So let's talk about today's

1:20.2

conversation that I had with a graduate captain. So he graduated from the masculinity reclaimed program. So after the third lesson of the

1:34.9

free live men's master class, I'll be sharing more about the program. But that is far after

1:41.4

tons and tons of teaching and value that I'm going to be giving you for free.

1:46.5

But Captain went on to continue the journey of growth and took the masculinity reclaimed program.

1:53.4

And this is his story.

1:55.0

So he started out with quite a lot of suffering in his marriage and in intimacy. But he also brought in a lot of difficult

2:05.1

stuff from before he was married. So I'll let him share the story, but it's a really beautiful

2:11.2

healing journey that God took he and his wife on throughout. And I'm just really excited to share, yeah, his journey.

2:20.3

And you'll hear just through the conversation, not just his story, but also you'll hear

2:26.8

the shifts in mentality that he had that I think are vital for men and women to have in order to really be able to

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