26 Life of The Party (Carl Radke + Tawny Lara)

How C*m

Remy Kassimir

Comedy, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Sex, Funny, Learning, Education, Fun, Girltalk, Humor

4.8 • 2.3K Ratings

🗓️ 1 September 2025

⏱️ 77 minutes

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Summary

Star of Bravo's Summer House Carl Radke and "Dry Humping" author Tawny Lara come on the pod to share their sobriety journeys and the challenges and triumphs of dating, sex and socializing without alcohol. We discuss how to "date yourself" in early sobriety, how long you should wait before dating another person, and how meaningful connections are made in sobriety. We discuss "partying"-- "what really IS it if drugs and alcohol are not involved?" and the need for new social spaces like Carl's upcoming "Soft Bar" to support sober individuals. Tawny shares her experience of quitting faking orgasms and and Carl shares his early discovery of adult content.

TW: Addiction + Loss

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0:00.0	Hello, everybody. Welcome back to Howcome this episode. It's about sobriety and sex and dating,
0:05.9	but it's also about shedding yourself of the need for liquid courage and actually fostering
0:12.2	real courage within yourself and like just like feeling really good, learning how to date
0:17.1	yourself before other people with Tani Lara, who is an incredible journalist and author.
0:22.8	She wrote the book Dry Humping, which so many people have come to me and said it changed their
0:27.8	lives. One of those people is our other guest today. Carl Radke, you may know him from Summerhouse on
0:33.9	Bravo. He's also the founder of a new non-alc space in Brooklyn called Soft Bar, which is
0:40.5	opening really soon. And he has his own book coming out soon called Cake Eater, which is about his
0:46.3	sobriety journey and life journey. And yeah, today we're again talking about dating, sex, everything
0:53.3	that you've ever wanted to know.
0:55.7	We had a really fun time and I think you will like it too.
0:58.9	How come? How come I can't achieve?
1:03.0	How come I can't achieve?
1:04.7	I'm rolling up my sleeves. I'm rolling up my sleeves.
1:08.1	Oh baby, I believe these guests can help because i can do it by myself i want a jizz
1:16.7	welcome carl hello hello how's it going are you in the city right now yes yeah i got back yesterday
1:25.0	afternoon from filming yep filming again wednesday thursday and then back out to the entrance again on Friday.
1:30.8	And then do it all over again the next week.
1:33.7	Uh-huh.
1:34.5	And then I think we're done.
1:35.8	Well, that will be nice.
1:37.1	Yes.
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