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ADHD reWired

258 | Mastermind - Asking for Help and Making Decisions

ADHD reWired

Eric Tivers, LCSW, ADHD-CCSP

Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Education

4.8937 Ratings

🗓️ 19 February 2019

⏱️ 78 minutes

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Summary

This episode is another mastermind group session. This conversation is with ADHD reWired alumni from our 14th season. This week, Katie returns to the podcast and is in the hot seat. We are joined by Kat, Roxy, Juliet, and Carrie. In this conversation, you will hear Katie describe her situation. She would like to find her passion and potentially make a career out of it. Katie enjoys creating content, specifically on YouTube. By the end of the conversation, Katie has an idea of what she wants to do, and she will have a timeline for herself to accomplish this goal. Connect with Katie: https://www.youtube.com/user/katiecuppycakemakeup Your Resources The Art of Asking: How I learned to Stop Worrying and Let People Help - Amanda Palmer You'll Learn: [02:19] - Katie shares that she is looking to mastermind finding her passion. She has struggled with decisions, so figuring out what passion to focus on has been difficult. [02:56] - Carrie asks about any limitations. Katie would like to turn a passion into a career, but she's having a hard time wrapping her head around that idea. [03:47] - Roxy asks Katie to list some of her passions. Katie explains why she is drawn to content creation via YouTube. This leads to a discussion on the number of things Katie is good at. [08:11] - In the past, she got overwhelmed when she restricted her efforts to one thing. She shared an example of this happening. [09:53] - Kat suggests the idea of "seasons" with a podcast or YouTube channel, which would allow her to keep her interests in several areas, rather than focus on just one. [12:26] - Juliet follows up on Katie's earlier comment about being a Kindergarten teacher. [14:55] - Carrie asks Katie to consider what she likes about each of her options. [22:03] - Katie describes "work." She describes what she finds fulfilling. [25:17] - Katie talks about how Jesse's skills complement her own. I talk with her about doing what you love and incorporating outsourcing. [31:18] - Katie gives a few reasons why she is interested in moving toward following her passions. [32:14] - We talk about talents and "gift." [33:32] - Katie says a lack of action on other things in life and the fact she's not on her medication is making moving towards her goal difficult. I share that ADHD is a performance disorder. [36:08] - Katie shares what she is doing to simplify things. [41:15] - Katie tells us what her lifelong vision is, which is something that is happening soon! [45:29] - Carrie asks if there are pain-points that might help Katie focus on specific things. She admits that she does not ask for help enough. [50:59] - Katie says she struggles with meal prep. [53:48] - We discuss the idea of Katie having a YouTube Channel on being an ADHD mom. [57:27] - Katie shares a recent epiphany. [1:03:43] - Katie decides how and when she will take action. [1:12:40] - Katie comes up with an impromptu song about her time on the hot seat. Use my Audible.com affiliate link for your favorite titles: http://www.audibletrial.com/ADHDreWired ADHD reWired Coaching and Accountability Group Early registration for ADHD reWired's Spring season of our online, video-based coaching and accountability group is underway. There are three registration events left. The earlier you sign up, the more you save! RSVP for one of our registration events by visiting http://coachingrewired.com ADHD Women's Palooza The ADHD Women's Palooza is back! Join me, and over 30 of the top ADHD experts focused on women's issues with ADHD. The event is February 25th through March 2nd. My session is on Friday, March 1st at 5pm Eastern. All sessions are free to attend! Learn more at http://adhdrewired.com/palooza Support the podcast on Patreon Patreon allows listeners like you to support content creators like me. With a monthly contribution, you can get access to different levels of perks. One perk example is our Patreon-only Adult Study Hall. Learn more at http://patreon.com/adhdrewired ADHD reWired Facebook Group: If you would like to join the ADHD reWired secret Facebook group, go to EricTivers.com/community and fill out an application. Productivity Q&A Get your ADHD questions answered live! These Q&A sessions take place on the 2nd Tuesday of every month at 12:30 pm. Go to http://erictivers.com/events. Want to be a guest? Hey, What about you? Do you have a story? Are you a Coach? Are you an ADHD Clinician? If you answered "yes" to any of these questions and you'd like to be a guest, schedule a pre-interview call here.

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So we've been thinking about those kinds of strategies because it's not about like, all right, I got to figure out what tools I can use.

0:06.0

So much of ADHD management is environmental modification.

0:11.0

Learning the skills is a huge part of it, but then once you have the skills, once you have the tools, that becomes a very small part of it.

0:18.0

It's setting up the environment so you use the skills and tools that you know to use.

0:23.2

Right.

0:23.9

Yeah, because I know what to do.

0:25.8

I'm just not doing what I know.

0:28.2

And that is ADHD.

0:30.6

ADHD, rewired, episode, 258.

0:35.0

This is the podcast for those of us with really good intentions

0:40.0

and a slightly wandering attention.

0:42.0

I'm Merrick Tivorous. I'm America Tavares.

0:43.0

I'm a licensed clinical social worker by training and a coach by design.

0:47.0

I'm your host and I have ADHD.

0:49.0

ADHD rewired is more than just a podcast.

0:52.0

We are a community. We are wired for connection and you are not alone.

0:57.0

Go to ADHD rewired.com to learn how you can join us in our free secret Facebook group.

1:02.0

Get additional resources for every episode,

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including links to any resources we mentioned on today's show.

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