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Earn Your Happy

258: How to Give Yourself What You Need The Most

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 2 August 2018

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

The other night I went to a Soul Cycle class despite the voice inside my head that told me I didn’t want to go and didn’t have the energy to move my legs that fast (can you relate?). But after coming off of my three-week vacation, I was struggling. My re-entry back into “reality” has been tough.   Thankfully my Soul Cycle instructor gave me the wake-up call (or question) that led to a shift.   “What is a gift you could give yourself right now that would make your day or life better?”   I actually surprised myself with the answer…an attitude adjustment. Whoa, seems a bit harsh, huh? But here’s the thing. Now is not the time to take it easy on myself. I’ve still got a lot of things I want to do. And one of those things, was getting back into the groove with my podcast interviews.   I had a ton of resistance around my scheduled interviews this week, but once I remembered how much I enjoy talking with such incredible humans, I changed my tune.   “Sitting in resistance is a choice.”   Sitting in resistance was not serving me. It was time to lean in and start asking myself questions instead. What would it look and feel like if I was back in the groove of things? What if I let go and enjoyed it? What would that look like?   “If it’s something you’re choosing to have on your plate because you want it there, you can let go of the resistance.”   I realize that letting go can be hard and it takes a lot of thought. Trust me, that has been me for the last week. But just start small by asking questions – don’t force it. You’ll find that once you start envisioning all the good things, your energy will increase, too. Resistance, while sometimes helpful, only sucks your energy away. Let’s do the opposite by ramping up your energy instead and watch as more shows up.   I hope this message prompts you to take a moment today to figure out what you need the most, move through resistance and lean in.  -- In This Episode Lori talks about:   Discovering what you really need to give yourself Why Lori gave herself an attitude adjustment Letting go of resistance and leaning in   Resources:   Go to ATribeCalledBliss.com to find out the latest on Lori’s book tour and join the world’s biggest tribe book club   A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder Now available at loriharder.com/amazon or ATribeCalledBliss.com   Join me on the A Tribe Called Bliss Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1571018952966750/   Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, it's that time of year again.

0:05.6

Everybody's talking about forming new habits, new you, new life.

0:10.6

You guys, change your habits, change your life, right?

0:13.1

That's all we talk about.

0:14.5

And I'm sure you've started some new habits this year.

0:16.5

I know that I have, but how are you going to track those habits?

0:19.8

Because what you don't measure doesn't get results.

0:23.0

And have you ever wondered which of your habits are the most important and how often should

0:27.2

you track?

0:28.2

And how do you make them weekly, monthly?

0:29.2

A lot of people know that they need to improve their habits, but they don't know where to start.

0:33.4

I have suffered with this as well.

0:35.5

And that's why I think you're going to love growth day.

0:37.5

It's the world's number one self improvement system.

0:40.3

I have committed to using it daily.

0:43.2

If you go watch my stories, you're going to see that I have been using their journaling

0:47.9

system and their tracking system.

0:49.5

And I am obsessed.

0:50.5

This is something that I do in my life.

0:52.5

Chris has committed with me.

0:54.1

Growth day helps you track proven habits that lead to long term success, well-being,

0:58.4

and positive relationships.

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