What's up guys? Jamie Grace, welcome to Waited Out of Podcast All About Dating Relationships and other things worth waiting for.

And the Instagram diems have spoken here is another question looking for an answer.

Hey, Jamie, I'm gonna just jump right into this. I have liked this guy.

Oops, that is yesterday's, okay, this is a new one.

Hey Jamie, I need some advice.

I hang out with a guy quite a few times a week.

We do fun things like go to the mall or last weekend we went to the

apple orchard orchard together he will ask to hang out almost daily even if

it's only for an hour the thing is he tells me he only sees me as a friend but he wants to spend so much time with just me. He and I get together almost three times a week and have been doing this for several months. I don't understand why he won't ask me out.

Whoa, girl, do I, am I ready for this one?

Okay, okay, okay, I have heard this many times.

I've been around my mom when she's heard this and I've heard her share

incredible advice. There's another lady up in the Maryland area you know who you

are. A friend of mine shared a story like this around her and she

gave some great advice and I think I've got a pretty decent take on this. So

this is going to be cultivated advice from older, wiser women in their 40s and 50s that I've heard

share advice on this and I'm going to bring it all together.

I want to start with the end of your message when you said I don't understand why he won't ask me out and I want to

start by saying this why I should have given a preface to this if your heart's in

a delicate place find another episode we're going to get pretty real and raw. That was your

warning. No, not a warning. It's not going to get scary or crazy, it's just going to

get real. So the end of your message says I don't

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