256-How to Not Fail At Marriage
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 18 August 2020
⏱️ 35 minutes
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Summary
With so much going on in the world, I think people are making big changes in their lives.
Given that people are becoming more aware of their own mortality, I think its making them decide to take action.
My encouragement in today's podcast: 256-How to Not Fail at Marriage, comes from a failure at marriage --ehemm --me!
When my first marriage failed I blamed him. When my second marriage was on the rocks, I realized I was the common denominator.
When I transformed myself, I witnessed this man change before my very eyes.
Now, that I work with many men and women from around the world, I wish I understood these truths and the essential Framework a wife and husband needs to not fail at marriage. And in fact thrive.
This episode is for you if your marriage isn't what you think it could be. I'd encourage you, if you know someone in that spot, this may be the perfect opportunity to send them insights that very well may transform their marriage.
None of us know when it's our time and God calls us home.
But right now, God has given us our spouse as the most important human relationship and I hope you honor it as such.
On today's show I cover:
-The 3 things men need to feel fulfilled in marriage
-The 3 things women need to feel fulfilled in marriage
-This Framework is what men and women need to understand to love each other the way the other receives love (hint: it's different for each spouse)
-What I wish I had known about sexual intimacy in my first marriage
-Why we are more respectful to strangers than our own life partner
If you are new to the Delight Your Marriage philosophies, this is a really good introduction. If you've been around for a while "repetition is the mother of learning" so I encourage you to take these insights too!
Find a deeper understanding of the Framework here!
Love & blessings,
Belah
PS - I'd love to invite you to send this to a friend if they're facing marriage challenges right now, this could save their marriage.
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. |
| 0:05.0 | You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.0 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind what making love is all about. |
| 0:17.0 | Delight your marriage. |
| 0:20.0 | Hi there. Welcome. This is Bella Rose. Now, today I am kind of writing this |
| 0:29.3 | open letter, if you will, to many, many couples who go through these cycles, but I'm going to kind of |
| 0:37.2 | personify it as if I was talking about |
| 0:39.2 | just one couple. But I just see these patterns over and over and over again, where a couple |
| 0:46.4 | starts off in love, so happy together, and then slowly things break down. I mean, just completely. And so whether it's because of poor |
| 0:59.9 | role modeling, trauma, a tragic past, I mean, so many difficulties. But I think there is a way |
| 1:08.6 | forward. And that's what I want to talk about. I'm not interested in |
| 1:12.0 | digging into everybody's past and, you know, doing therapy while I'm on a coaching call. Like, |
| 1:17.5 | that's not, that's not what this is. But it is as like, what is our path forward? How can we move past |
| 1:25.0 | this? So listen in with a curiosity of, you know, maybe you've had some friends that have gotten divorced. Maybe you've gotten divorced. What happened in that situation? Why did it happen? And in a lot of ways, these are principles that I've developed because they can go across the board so often. It's loving your |
| 1:48.0 | spouse the way they receive love to heal the situation, to heal. So do I run the risk of being |
| 1:56.5 | too simple in this podcast? Yes. Things may be too simple, but I think if I don't give you some |
| 2:03.3 | really strong principles to hold on to, it becomes noise in a way that it doesn't stick with you. |
| 2:10.4 | Repetition is the mother of learning. And so my encouragement to you is to listen to this |
| 2:16.2 | and really catch the principles that can |
| 2:19.6 | guide you forward to a better marriage, a better relationship, and one that doesn't end in divorce, |
| 2:26.2 | the one that ends in generosity and playfulness and intimacy in all ways. So let's go ahead and dive in. |
| 2:48.4 | All right. |
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