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Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

254: How to Help Kids Build a Healthy Relationship with Food with Special Guest Dr. Reshma Shah

Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

Dr. Lisa Damour/Reena Ninan

Mental Health, Parenting, Health & Fitness, Kids & Family

4.8720 Ratings

🗓️ 13 January 2026

⏱️ 37 minutes

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Summary

We all want for our kids to build a healthy relationship with food, but it’s not always clear how to make that happen. Special guest Dr. Reshma Shah offers a grounded, practical approach to navigating the common challenges parents face at mealtime. If you’re trying to guide your tween or teen toward healthier eating without power struggles, guilt, or the nightly “just take one bite!” battle, this episode is for you. In this episode of Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens, Lisa and Reena sit down with Dr. Shah to dig into what really works when it comes to helping kids eat well and feel good about food. Whether your child is picky, stressed about food, obsessed with protein, avoiding vegetables, or simply eating most of their meals away from home, this conversation offers a grounded, judgment-free roadmap for calmer mealtimes and healthier habits. 💡 YOU’LL LEARN: - Why modeling healthy eating matters far more than lecturing about it - How to use low-stress dinner table dynamics to boost kids’ nutrition - How to shift to neutral, non-judgmental language around food - Why family meals carry long-term benefits for mental health, nutrition, and connection If this conversation helps you rethink your family’s approach to food, tell us in the comments! Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges.  Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday.healthy eating, picky eating, family meals, nutrition, food relationship, mindful eatingask lisa podcast, dr lisa damour, reena ninan, psychology, parenting, podcast, teens, tweens, parenting teens, parenting tweens, teen parenting, tween parenting, parenting tips, parenting advice, positive parenting, parenting podcast, teen behavior, tween challenges, raising tweens, raising teens, parenting hacks, parenting help, family dynamics, kids podcast, mental health, teen mental health, attachment styles, emotional intelligence

Transcript

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0:00.0

Tell me a parenting issue everyone struggles with with tweens and teens, but no one talks about.

0:06.6

Rina, I think a lot of people feel like they just don't know how to connect to their kid anymore.

0:12.7

I'm Rina Nainen and welcome to Ask Lisa the psychology of raising tweens and teens.

0:17.6

And I'm Dr. Lisa DeMore.

0:19.1

We bring you science-back strategies for managing anxiety, discipline, intense emotions, and more.

0:24.6

We decode tough parenting issues with tips you can use right now.

0:28.6

So subscribe to Ask Lisa the psychology of raising tweens and teens and join our YouTube community today.

0:35.6

Just Google, Ask Lisa Podcast.

0:38.0

We're here to help you untangle family life.

0:43.4

Episode 254, how to help kids build a healthy relationship with food with special guest, Dr.

0:49.7

Rish Masha.

0:54.7

What's the one thing in parenting?

0:57.0

If you could totally get rid of, you'd get rid of.

0:59.6

What would I totally get rid of?

1:01.3

Oh my gosh.

1:02.7

You know what I would get rid of?

1:04.2

What would you get rid of?

1:05.7

Cooking.

1:06.7

Dinner every night.

1:08.9

I know.

1:09.4

I hate the What to Make for Dinner question is the question every day. Actually, today already I'm like, I hate cooking dinner.

1:11.2

The what to make for dinner question is the question every day.

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