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read this week at our round table of slightly brighter than dim maybe even I'd say just normal normal lighting. Yeah, we're gonna be talking about your biggest regrets and hours. Hashtag no regrets.

We're not gonna leave anything on the table. Is that we're gonna leave it all on the table. What's the saying? We're gonna put it. You leave it on the floor. You

leave things on the floor and you put things on the table. Leave it on the field. Yeah, yeah, if you're playing a football you leave it on the field. If you're

playing basketball you leave it on the floor. Poker. Leave it on the table. Leave it on the table. I don't know. We're gonna keep putting on the table. We're gonna we're gonna flop it out and

slam it on the table. And we're gonna leave it there and we're not gonna regret it today.

Because we're you know regrets can be a downer but I think that I don't think it has to be we ask you to tell us. Yeah, what your regrets were. And

uh, we.

Oh, we know said. What I mean is that.

Bre, Uindo, whatever I regret nothing in life. If I hadn't done the things I did, I wouldn't be where I am now. No need to regret anything. Just learn from it and move on.

And a Trees on Twitter reply and said I second that statement. I think people spend too much time dwelling in the past and it waste so much time in the present.

All it does is lead to more regret down the road. Well, okay. Well, let's just guess you're not gonna listen to this. Well, I just I was just gonna say let's pack it up.

Let's go. Let's go do something. You remember we might regret not having a conversation. You remember how sometimes we used to just go see a movie.

Remember those days on a work day. Like we could do it because we had time and also you could go to the movie theater.

Yeah, neither one of those is available at this point, but so we should do this podcast. Yeah, I don't want to regret not doing it. But I listen, I sympathize with this. We we've talked about, um, I don't know many different times we we've told the story of how well we did this and it led to, you know, make a decision to do something because it'll lead to something else.

Everything that we've ever really done was never according to the original plan or intention. Very little of it. I think what Bri, Bri, you know, is saying or at least the way I told her if you're happy with where you are.

And you wouldn't want you really can't regret things because if you if you changed it you may have a ripple effect that you wouldn't end up being where you are. So you might as well just say.

A regret is just a learning opportunity and I'm so I just think we're just using those terms interchangeably. A regret is something that if presented with the same situation now we would you do something differently.

Yeah, I mean, do you have something in mind?

No, well, yes. So when I think about like professional things or relational things, I don't entertain the possibility of regrets in those areas. I mean, I've made a lot of mistakes in both areas.

But because I'm happy where I'm at professionally and I'm happy where I'm at relationally, I wouldn't want it to be any different just like what you were just saying. So I tend to think when I think about regrets, I mean, they're very personal. They're just things that are just like it's just you, bro.

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