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Living Easy with Lindsey

25 | Escaping Perfectionism, Insecurity & People-Pleasing

Living Easy with Lindsey

Lindsey Maestas

Religion & Spirituality, Society & Culture, Relationships, Christianity

4.81.3K Ratings

🗓️ 30 March 2020

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Alanna Garcia has been one of my best friends for over 20 years. She is an old soul, a woman who pours wisdom into my life and leads her life with a heart of sincere compassion. We have seen the best and worst of one another, and one thing that we struggle with equally is fear of man, insecurity and striving for perfectionism. 

On today's episode, Alanna and I share vulnerably about their pasts and how fear and insecurity have impacted our lives and what we have learned from it. We talk about hyper-criticism, living authentically and how to stop apologizing for 'taking up space'.

We laugh often and share our struggles and biblical encouragement in hopes that you will feel comfortable and challenged to move forward from the internal battles that you face as an individual. 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Alana Garcia and I have been friends since we were nine years old.

0:04.0

She has seen the best of me and the worst of me,

0:07.0

and our friendship is honestly stronger now than it has ever been.

0:11.0

Alana is someone who pours wisdom into my life consistently.

0:15.3

She is an old soul and she's loved by everyone who meets her.

0:19.8

We have a relationship where we just get one another. We click and one of the struggles

0:25.8

that Alana and I have both faced equally is the tendency to people please and

0:29.7

to strive for perfectionism. It has created many issues in our own lives and we've both

0:35.3

worked together to fight the temptation to live that way and as we've gotten older

0:39.8

although it is definitely still a struggle for both of us,

0:42.6

we've learned so much about ourselves

0:44.6

and we feel that we have grown in this area.

0:47.2

And so on today's conversation,

0:48.8

we are joking and laughing and sharing ridiculous things

0:52.1

while also giving practical advice on escaping perfectionism and people

0:56.3

pleasing.

0:57.3

I hope that this episode is a breath of fresh air for you in this season of life, that you're

1:01.0

able to laugh with us over a cup of coffee and that you will be

1:04.0

blessed by the wisdom that Alana shares. Let's jump in.

1:11.1

Hey friends we were never promised that life would be easy. Sometimes it is

1:16.9

hard and super crazy, but when we do life together we find that it becomes a lot

1:22.0

easier and much more fun. I believe in

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