What's up guys? Jamie Grace here. Welcome to Wait It Out a Podcast on Dating Relationships and other things worth waiting for.

We're going to jump right into today's question, but I do want to say I think that this almost might be a part three to the last two days as you guys know I typically don't read

your questions ahead of time I just kind of read them as I'm recording and we just kind of wing it from

there but I did skim this one a little bit and I think that it's going to continue from these last two days.

So if you want to go ahead and listen to yesterday's episode about risking the friendship if you like the guy and then the one from two days before as to when to ask him if he's interested

then we're gonna jump in today's into today's episode I cannot talk okay this one

is from okay she does not have her name on here. I think she might want to be anonymous.

Okay, this is a long question. Here we go guys. Jamie, for the Waited Out podcast, I recently

started, uh, I should put quotations around catching feels from my best friend.

I kept it in for a long time other than telling a few girlfriends, but a few friends told me

that I should really tell him before I explode.

He was about to go to a new school so I thought it will be a good time before he started liking another girl from his new school.

So I wrote him a letter telling him how I felt but also that I valued our friendship above it all and wanted to be friends no matter how he felt. A few days went by

after giving him the letter. I finally, wait where is the rest of this message? I

finally heard from him via social media message.

He said he read the letter but needed some time to think.

My birthday was coming up.

He avoided me for a whole week and then popped in on a surprise party

that was thrown for me and left.

My friend says she saw him and he was avoiding me,

not really doing anything.

The next day was my actual birthday

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