When you, when you go to someone's house, don't let the fact that it feels familiar trick you into a false sense of intimacy that hasn't been earned. And the Hey everyone welcome back to the

welcome back to the channel it's been a crazy week.

I wanted to get back to basics and do a video for you on the five things that you need to know before you go on Netflix and chill with somebody.

Before I get into the video, the book came out this week.

It has been a huge week, a crazy week, and so many of you have contributed to the way that

this book has gotten out there by already ordering a copy.

Thank you from the bottom of my heart for doing that.

I wanted to level with you on something right now.

Tomorrow is the final day that week one book sales count for the New York Times list.

And the reason we want to get on the New York Times list is not for vanity.

I've been on that list before with my first book it's because if we get

on that list it creates more publicity around the book and more publicity around the

book means that this book will find the people who need it.

People who may not even know who I am,

but need what's in this book to be happy and more confident

and to value themselves more.

So this is me saying to you,

if you get value out of my work, if anything I've ever done, any video I've ever made last week or 10 years ago has helped you, 17 years ago at this point has helped you.

It would mean the world to me if you would grab a copy of the book.

I'm going to keep doing this.

I'm going to keep making free videos.

I'm going to keep writing free newsletters.

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