241: 4 Reasons Your Desires Aren't Inspiring

The Empowered Wife Podcast: Marriage Help with Laura Doyle

Laura Doyle

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🗓️ 2 July 2024

⏱️ 110 minutes

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If you’re thinking that your husband doesn’t care about your desires and that’s why he doesn’t get inspired when he hears them, that’s so hurtful and unloving. It's also very lonely, like you’re invisible. That's how I felt when I thought that John didn’t care what I wanted. That’s what a lot of students thought too. But we were wrong. It turns out, we just weren’t expressing desires. We thought we were, but we weren’t. On today’s episode of The Empowered Wife Podcast, I’m talking about four reasons your desires aren't inspiring and how to fix that in a hurry.

Plus, my guest Marian couldn’t stop raging at her husband, who told her he wasn’t happy anymore. She discovered this podcast and started implementing the Intimacy Skills, and today he tells her he loves her all the time. She’s going to tell us how she went from depressed and anxious to content and calm so you can do it too!

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0:00.0	today on the Empowered Wife podcast.
0:03.0	And then, you know, I'd get together with my mom friends and like one of our favorite topics of conversation was like,
0:10.0	how much better of a parent we are than our husbands right?
0:15.0	Like I don't blame anyone. It's like,
0:19.0	we're just like, oh my gosh, well let me tell you this ridiculous story about what my husband did last night and how I fixed it.
0:26.4	Right?
0:27.4	Right?
0:28.4	Welcome to the Empowered Wife Podcast, where it's all about fixing your relationship without
0:37.0	your man's conscious efforts so that you feel desired, taken care of, and special,
0:42.4	even if your relationship feels completely hopeless.
0:45.2	I'm Laura Doyle, and today I'm talking about four reasons that your desires aren't inspiring,
0:51.5	and more importantly, how you can fix that in a hurry to get what you want.
0:55.9	My guest Marion was depressed, anxious and she could not stop raging at her husband who told her he wasn't happy anymore.
1:06.2	She discovered this podcast and started implementing the six intimacy skills and today she tells her he loves her all the time. She's going to tell us how she did it so you can do it too. But first let's talk about the four reasons that your desires aren't inspiring and let's figure out how to fix that in a hurry because this is like my favorite topic. I just want every woman to know how to get what she wants,
1:36.1	how to express it so that you're inspiring yourself and everyone around you including your man.
1:42.3	Now if you are thinking what I used to think which is that my
1:46.4	husband didn't care at all about my desires and that's why he doesn't get inspired when
1:52.4	he hears them, it's very hurtful. It feels so lonely and unloving and rejecting.
2:00.0	It's like you're invisible to him.
2:03.0	And that's what I thought and that John just didn't care what I wanted.
2:08.0	That's what a lot of students have said to me too, but the good news is we were wrong. We were wrong, wrong, wrong. It turns
2:17.3	out we just weren't expressing our desires in a way that inspires. We thought we were, I thought I was, but I wasn't.
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