24: Melissa Dahl | The Not-So-Cringeworthy Truth about Awkwardness
The Jordan Harbinger Show
Jordan Harbinger
4.8 • 12.3K Ratings
🗓️ 2 April 2018
⏱️ 55 minutes
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Summary
Melissa Dahl (@melissadahl) is a senior editor covering health and psychology for New York's The Cut. In 2014, she co-founded New York magazine's popular social science site Science of Us. Her first book, Cringeworthy: A Theory of Awkwardness, is out now.
What We Discuss with Melissa Dahl:- Awkwardness does not have to make us feel alone -- in fact, the things that make us cringe can serve to remind us of how connected we all truly are.
- Our concept of ourselves is often constructed externally -- by how we think other people view us.
- How awkwardness can help us have tough conversations about race, politics, and gender.
- How we can stop stop reliving embarrassing memories.
- How to remap and reframe feelings of awkwardness or embarrassment and use them to our advantage.
- And much more...
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| 1:04.2 | You know, most of the time we kind of walk around and the me I have in my own head, |
| 1:08.0 | I think that other people are seeing me the same way I do. But I think the moments where |
| 1:13.5 | the me in my head collides with the me that's actually running around out there in the world. |
| 1:17.2 | And when those two things are shown to be different, I think those are the moments that make us |
| 1:22.4 | cringe. |
| 1:24.4 | All right, welcome to the show. I'm Jordan Harmanger. As always, I'm here with my producer Jason |
| 1:28.9 | to Phillipo. On this episode, we're talking with Melissa Dahl, author of cringe worthy, a theory |
| 1:34.8 | of awkwardness. She also co-founded New York Magazine's popular social science site, |
| 1:39.6 | Science of Us, which I often read. And if you're interested in the topics we have here on the show, |
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