24: Is It Risky to Flirt with Him? How to Read His Signs

Love Life with Matthew Hussey

Matthew Hussey

Relationships, Society & Culture

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🗓️ 18 May 2020

⏱️ 7 minutes

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Summary

“WTF? Do not use this.”

This is a comment I received last week. It was in response to a flirty little text that I suggested you use with the guy who is on your mind right now.

In fact, this text really seemed to divide people. Someone even said it could result in “catastrophe.” And this comment had likes. A lot of them. W. T. F.

So, despite the fact that I was going to move on to a different topic this week, my director Jameson Jordan politely (feistily) asked (demanded) that I respond to these comments.

And I never say no to Jameson when he gets feisty.

So, here is that response...

You might be a little surprised by my response, because if you felt like the texts I suggested were a little dangerous, it might reveal a bigger, deeper, more important red flag at play. I hope you enjoy it.

And if you don’t, please don’t leave any more comments that make Jameson make me do more work. I’m tired, and I’m in my pajamas.

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0:00.0	So normally when I make a video we do that concept and then the next week we move on to the next thing.
0:28.0	Jameson wouldn't let me do that this week because he said I had to comment on the comments from the last video.
0:34.0	To recap the last video I gave a bunch of text messages that you could send someone to flirt from a distance.
0:41.0	But there was one text message I gave as an example that was particularly divisive and there I say unexpectedly controversial.
0:51.0	I send the person that you're talking to a message that says you're so annoying.
0:55.0	Now that's going to peak their interest. They're going to ask why.
0:58.0	When they say why you say because you're one of the main people who's making staying at home so difficult right now.
1:08.0	This might be the top comment. Him. You're so annoying.
1:12.0	What the actual fuck do not use this? So she's given that out as a kind of public service announcement.
1:24.0	How on edge are you? If someone sends you a message saying you're so annoying.
1:31.0	Your first reaction is what the actual fuck?
1:36.0	Well I think it's time we took things a little less seriously.
1:42.0	That's like the equivalent of a guy in a bar who you just brush past and he looks at you and says you got a problem.
1:50.0	He's already on edge. There's something already going on there.
1:55.0	If the dynamic that you're in with someone can't support that level of playfulness then it says more about the dynamic than it's just a problem.
2:05.0	It's a dynamic than it does about the message.
2:08.0	Don't do the first one.
2:11.0	Catastrophe potential.
2:14.0	We're in a pandemic. You would think that we've suffered our language on what we term a catastrophe.
2:19.0	What's the potential for it to go wrong other than someone might go what do you mean?
2:24.0	Why are you mean? Why am I so annoying?
2:27.0	Because you're one of the main people making staying at home so difficult right now.
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