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Delight Your Marriage

234-Oral Sex: Why He Cares (SO Much) & Why She's Not Comfortable

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Sexuality, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness, Christianity

4.7589 Ratings

🗓️ 16 January 2020

⏱️ 25 minutes

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Summary

Wives:

As a wife who was bewildered by his desire and feeling grossed out by it, I get it!

But more than that... my hangups included, it's dirty, wrong, sinful, perverted, from the pornos, etc etc etc.

But he kept caring about this. And he wasn't the only one.

And now I hear from husbands all the time about how important this is to them. 

And these guys aren't jerks, pigs, or abusers. 

They're God-honoring gentlemen, who love their wives, they're good fathers and they want to enjoy their lives and their marriage and LOVE HER THE WAY SHE FEELS LOVED TOO!

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Husbands:

On this episode I have some practical (VERY ehemmm practical) tips for you. This can be something for you guys in your marriage even if you've been married many years!

If you're tempted to ask your wife to listen to this... consider for a bit. Will it make her feel forced? 

Instead, I want to invite you to my live, free webinar series coming up!

This is an awesome opportunity to get your wife introduced to my work.

It'll have intimacy sprinkled in but it won't be as focused (and possibly alarming to someone not really on board with my concepts).

But you'll want to attend the webinar too because it'll have golden nuggets for you two! What can YOU do to encourage your wife in this?

ReNewed Connection: Deeper, Loving Relationship & TRUE Intimacy!

 

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The other free resource I mentioned is The 7 Blocks to Her Libido resource!

 

Looking forward to having you at the Webinar Series. (Also, if you are seeing this in the future, you can go to the same link and gain some kind of helpful material!)

ReNewed Connection: Deeper, Loving Relationship & TRUE Intimacy!

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast.

0:05.0

You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy.

0:11.0

Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind.

0:15.0

What Making Love is all about. Delight Your Marriage.

0:19.0

Hey there, welcome, welcome. This is Bella Rose. Delight your marriage.

0:28.5

Hey there. Welcome, welcome. This is Bella Rose. I, first of all, would like to apologize for my voice. I have a really great show for you. I am excited about this topic. This is something that

0:35.7

is on a lot of people's minds when I coach them

0:40.1

because of my book, because of the content of my podcasts, and they really want to know,

0:46.5

they want help with this. And so what I want to talk about is oral sex, why he cares so

0:53.8

much and why she's uncomfortable. Before I jump into that,

0:58.9

I want to invite you on a free webinar series. And this is actually going to be live. Now,

1:06.1

if you're listening in the future, it's possible that there will be this material available and will be at the same link.

1:13.7

So go to www.delightyermarriage.com slash renew.

1:18.8

And this webinar series is really an opportunity for spouses to introduce each other to the content and to reconnect and rekindle here in the beginning

1:34.6

of the year or again, if you're listening in the future at any time. So you go to www.

1:40.6

delight your marriage.com slash renew. And it's all about renew your connection, deeper, loving,

1:48.2

relationship, and true intimacy. So in that webinar series, I'm going to be talking about what true

1:54.3

intimacy means and how can you guys reconnect based on principles of the most important things that men need and

2:04.7

the most important things women need? And what I aim to do with this webinar series is to give

2:10.7

you kind of a very easily digestible version of a lot of the stuff we talk about in this podcast. It's really to help

2:22.4

maybe your wife have a bit less reservations around my work for her to understand that I

2:30.0

understand her, that I am a normal wife. I'm not a nymphomaniac by any means.

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