233: She Only Wants Sex to Keep Him Happy

Foreplay Radio – Couples and Sex Therapy

Cloud10

Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.5 • 1.9K Ratings

🗓️ 4 June 2020

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Join us for a sample conversation with "Eleanor" who is always anxious about sex, preoccupied with whether or not she is pleasing her husband, but unable to be present for her own experience. She doesn’t want to risk hurting her husband even if it would make the sexual moment better for her. Her husband thinks she's not into it, but hear how she worries and actually thinks about it constantly without ever knowing if her husband is happy with her. We have heard hundreds of similar stories about the disconnects that can happen in sexual relationship. We invite you to consider opening up a discussion with your lover about their experience in sex. Help support us by checking out our sponsor Uberlube. Uberlube has great lubricants! Go to uberlube.com and use the coupon code ‘Foreplay’ to get savings! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	The following content is not suitable for children.
0:02.6	Today we're going to talk about a woman who really only wants to make him happy.
0:09.9	Welcome to Four Play Radio, Couples and Sex Therapy.
0:13.0	I'm Lori Watson, your sex therapist.
0:15.5	And I'm George Fallon, a couples therapist.
0:17.9	And we are passionate about talking about sex
0:20.6	and helping you develop a way to talk to each other.
0:23.7	Our mission is to help our audience develop a healthier relationship to sex
0:28.9	that integrates the mind, the heart, and the body.
0:32.9	Just as we begin, please remember to check out UberLube.
0:36.0	UberLube.com is where you can get this great lubricant
0:39.4	and help support for-play radio.
0:42.3	This woman that we're talking about, George, is really such a typical
0:46.4	patient, somebody who is not in touch with her own sexuality particularly, but is
0:52.1	oriented toward making her partner happy and
0:54.8	she's anxiously attached but I want to demonstrate and us to demonstrate kind of
1:01.3	what it's like for her. Of course we're continuing our
1:04.8	assessment theme and helping therapists but we also want to help people who might be
1:09.9	married to this type of woman who is kind of preoccupied with not her own experience and not
1:17.4	what she gets out of it either emotionally or physically, but just making sure that he's okay, and how she puts away her own fears and her
1:28.2	own worries.
1:29.2	We're also going to see how she doesn't want to risk hurting her partner and that's part of the reason
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