My job is to somehow make them curious enough or persuade them by Hooker Crow to get more aware of themselves and where they came from and what they are into and what is already there and just to bring it out.

This is what compels me to compel them and I will do it by whatever

means necessary.

Welcome to the Black Girls Hill Podcast, where we talk about healing our intimacy disorders and

resolve trauma and building a healthy relationship with first ourselves and

then others. Every episode we will talk about advice you can apply today to break unhealthy patterns

and grow in your self-worth. I'm She Nila Shay, Love Edition coach and

Trauma Specialist. Let's begin.

Hello, and welcome to the latest episode of Black Girls Heel. So we are at our last episode of our mother wound series where there are different

episodes that I or different topics where I'm talking about the

different aspects of mother wounds and so we've talked about coping with jealousy from a mother relationship.

And we talked about mother hunger last week. And if I married this episode when I'm recording it, we, this week I am slated to talk about narcissistic

relationships or relationships with narcissistic mothers or women who present with

narcissistic symptomology or qualities. When I sat down to record it I had a really amazing guess who was going to co-record with me.

I started to think about, you know, we've been talking about different themes around this for a while. Now I wonder if it may be good to save that

episode for the future but maybe talk about something that isn't really talked about a lot when it comes to mother wounds and mother wound trauma.

And that is sexual abuse that happens when you are abused by someone who is a woman.

This is one of the really secret things

that we don't really talk about when it comes

to the different types of abuse.

We'll talk about emotional of abuse we'll talk about

emotional abuse we'll talk about maybe even physical abuse and

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