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Heaven In Your Home

232. Intentional Intimacy: Why the Small Things Matter Most

Heaven In Your Home

Francie Winslow

God, Monogamy, Religion & Spirituality, Christianity, Christian, Marriage, Love, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Sex, Fidelity

4.9660 Ratings

🗓️ 4 August 2025

⏱️ 13 minutes

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Summary

This week’s installment of the Intentional Intimacy series is all about the quiet power of consistency. Inspired by The Compound Effect, Francie shares how tiny daily choices, like eye contact and kissing in the kitchen, can produce exponential fruit in your marriage over time.

It’s not the grand gestures or weekend getaways that shape your intimacy, it’s the 10-second moments, the intentional habits, the repeated “yes” to presence and tenderness.

In this episode, Francie explores:

  • The spiritual power of small, daily investments in love

  • Why prolonged eye contact and physical affection matter

  • How consistent connection rewires your marriage for intimacy

  • Real-life examples and encouragement to reframe your rhythms

Whether you’re newlywed or 40 years in, this episode offers a grace-filled, hope-building reminder: you have agency to grow your intimacy one small act at a time.

 

Resources and Invitation to Go Deeper:

Growth Courses

101 Strong Foundations for Married Sex, here

201 Pleasure and Orgasm: Passion and Practicals, here

Before (And After) I Do, here

 

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Keep learning and get direct access to Francie! Join the Circle group mentorship. Inside the Circle, we talk practicals and get support to grow. Learn more here:  The Circle

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Hey friends, welcome back. Today's episode will be picking up where we left off with this new

0:10.3

series. It's a 10 week series on the top 10 or I'll just say 10 ways to intentionally invest in

0:18.3

your intimacy. I say intentionally because we often maybe are told through

0:24.1

movies or TV shows or country songs that romance and loving connection just kind of happens

0:31.9

because life happens. And actually life happens. So connection doesn't happen. life pulls on us in so many different directions

0:39.7

one of the first things that I've noticed to suffer is our intimate connection both sexually

0:44.9

or emotionally or spiritually deep intimate connection requires intentionality it's true spiritually

0:52.4

it's true in friendships and it's definitely true

0:55.4

in our marriage and in our bedroom life and our intimacy sexually. So we've been talking about

1:03.2

ideas for how to succinctly prioritize intimacy in intentional ways. So we're moving on with week eight this week and I want to

1:14.2

just jump in with a prayer and then we will go, Lord, thank you for our good bodies. I just love to

1:22.2

stop when I say that and breathe and remember that I have a body and that my body is good and my body is a blessing

1:30.1

to worship the Lord that we are to be living, moving, breathing, sacrifices of love for God and the

1:38.0

world to give you God all of ourselves and that talking about sexuality and intentionality in marriage is not a separate

1:46.1

conversation from our faith, but it's completely integrated in. So Lord, we give you our bodies

1:52.4

and our desires and our time and our attention. And we pray that you would direct us into love

1:58.4

for you and in our marriage and for the world.

2:00.9

But today would you give us energy and capacity to consider how we can directly and intentionally point our focus towards love in our marriage.

2:10.6

In Jesus' name, amen.

2:12.2

Okay.

2:12.7

So the eighth idea that I want to offer you is coming from a book that I'm actually reading this

2:19.3

summer with my husband and our teenagers.

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