#23 Thomas Whitfield - Break your dating patterns
Two Stand-Up Gals
Erica Spera and Teresa DeGaetano
5 • 647 Ratings
🗓️ 5 March 2020
⏱️ 88 minutes
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Summary
This episode is with special guest THOMAS WHITFIELD! Therapist and doctoral candidate Thomas joins Molly and Erica to discuss THERAPY! The difference between CBT Therapy, Exposure therapy, Psychotherapy, etc. and how we can use them to improve our relationships. Thomas opens up about getting HPV, and how to tell your future partners about incurable STIs. They also talk about; how we always choose the people we date, how to break your past relationship patterns, and why we must accept people for where they are and not what you think they can be. We also touch on the book "The Rhythm of Life" by Matthew Kelly.
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| 0:29.8 | Because the truth is, is that, you know, we, we have a sixth sense that where we pick out the people that we want to date. I always tell people, my clients too, if the same situation keeps happening over and over in your life or you think |
| 0:41.3 | you keep like dating the same person, you are the common denominator in all of these relationships. |
| 0:46.3 | It's not everyone else. You are seeking these people out. You are bringing them into your life. |
| 0:50.3 | You are choosing to go on dates with them. Like, this is not just happening to you. |
| 0:55.0 | You are the common denominator. |
| 0:57.0 | It is not everybody else. |
| 0:58.7 | That's why I went to therapy. |
| 0:59.6 | I had two back to back of, like, people with girlfriends, and I didn't know. |
| 1:02.2 | Dude, I had, like, five. |
| 1:04.8 | And then it's like... What's up everybody? |
| 1:17.3 | Welcome back to Shooters Got a Shoot. |
| 1:19.1 | I am your co-host, Eric Aspera. |
| 1:20.8 | And I'm Molly DeMille. |
| 1:22.0 | And we have a hot guest for you today. |
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