229. You're dating life isn't changing because of THIS
Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau
Beatrice
4.8 • 3.4K Ratings
🗓️ 30 November 2023
⏱️ 18 minutes
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Summary
If you've ever felt like something is wrong with YOU because you keep attracting the SAME types of men over and over again...
Men who are emotionally unavailable...
Men who are not interested in commitment...
Men who are unfaithful...
etc.
There's actually something DEEPER to the story. It's not that you're doomed. Or that something is wrong with you. It's that you may have an UNCONSCIOUS dating pattern running the show and you don't even know it. Tune into this episode to learn more.
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| 0:00.0 | Hello and welcome back to the self-love fix podcast my name is Beatrice and I'm your host and today I'm not going to waste any time I'm just going to jump right into the topic so I want to talk patterns in dating and why they matter and how they are impacting the types of men that you attract as well as the types of relationships you attract. |
| 0:24.0 | I think you're really going to like this one and I wish more people knew about patterns. |
| 0:29.0 | If something is happening to you over and over again in your love life. |
| 0:33.7 | Let's say you are constantly attracting emotionally unavailable men and you are constantly |
| 0:38.5 | attracting men who are not interested in commitment or you're constantly attracting relationships that last I don't know |
| 0:45.8 | maybe three months at best they don't last very long no matter what you do you attract men |
| 0:51.9 | who belittle you attract men who belittle you, |
| 0:53.4 | or men who have broken your trust. |
| 0:57.2 | If it happens more than one, two, three times, |
| 1:01.3 | and don't quote me on the number of times I what I really mean here is it is something |
| 1:06.2 | that happens over and over again that's not a coincidence that's not there's a dating in |
| 1:11.5 | 2023 problem there's a men problem there's a dating in 2023 problem there's a men problem there's a |
| 1:15.1 | this problem there's a that problem or relationships are what they used to be or |
| 1:20.1 | dating isn't what it used to be or it's trash or whatever it is. It's not that. What's really happening here is |
| 1:26.8 | there's a pattern and patterns tell a story about something you're looking for, |
| 1:31.6 | something you're hoping to gain, |
| 1:33.0 | something that you feel you don't have, |
| 1:36.0 | that you are trying to look for in someone else. |
| 1:39.0 | As human beings, I say this all the time. |
| 1:40.0 | I've said it so many times on this podcast. |
| 1:42.0 | Wait, did you just |
| 1:42.8 | hear that my house shoe just squeaked on the floor but anyway I've said it so many |
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