229-Arguments Affect Your Sex: My husband's awesome conversation
Delight Your Marriage
Belah Rose
4.7 • 589 Ratings
🗓️ 14 November 2019
⏱️ 50 minutes
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Summary
We argued yesterday. Knives were involved. Well truthfully, it was a disagreement at a restaurant. But the actual emotions happened way before the restaurant. My husband is on the show again (back by popular demand!) to tell how he was feeling and what he did and why.
Why is this important for your intimacy? A wife wants to make love to a man she feels safe with. If you're arguing in a way that makes her feel unsafe, then you're repelling her from the very thing you crave.
I want to share this podcast because I think we have HORRIBLE examples of marital conflict. We take our cues from movies, dramas, chick flicks and sitcoms. All of which have very unhealthy and hurtful aspects.
I want to give you a vision of a REALLY GOOD conflict. One where each of us weren't "perfect". But each of us allowed our value of intimacy, connection and love to be higher than our emotions and impulses.
I hope this gives you encouragement and inspiration in your next emotional challenge between the two of you. There's another way and there are specific tools you can use to NOT leave you or your spouse bloody and bruised rhetorically.
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| 0:00.0 | Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast. You're joining me, Bella Rose, as I dive deep into the beauty, power, and truths about intimacy. |
| 0:11.7 | Learn not only the practicals, but the heart behind. What Making Love is all about. Delight Your Marriage. |
| 0:20.1 | All right. |
| 0:21.1 | Welcome, welcome. |
| 0:22.2 | This is Bella Rose, and I'm really excited that you're joining me today. |
| 0:26.8 | So what I wanted to do in this show is, I guess the heart behind this show is to help people have healthy marriages, healthy families, and ultimately that they can do |
| 0:40.3 | God's work better because they're overflowing with love through their marriage. And so what I think is really |
| 0:48.8 | important is for us to get a vision of healthy disagreements. Now, of course, if you're a human and you're living |
| 0:56.0 | with another human, you're going to have differences of opinions. And I'm here with my |
| 1:02.0 | amazing husband. Hello. And we're going to walk through step by step, a recent disagreement that we had, in fact, |
| 1:12.8 | yesterday. |
| 1:14.6 | And the reason I wanted to really show you exactly what it sounded like from our perspective |
| 1:22.3 | is because we have so many examples of very unhealthy disagreements. It's constant from movies and TV shows and |
| 1:32.7 | sitcoms, things that are funny. So maybe we'll laugh about it or maybe it's a drama, so we're |
| 1:38.1 | crying about it. But it's not a healthy disagreement. So how often do we actually get to see, |
| 1:47.4 | wow, that was healthy. No one left feeling, you know, lonely or hurt or angry. How did they leave from a disagreement where they still |
| 1:58.4 | felt connected, respected, and they still felt loved. And I got to tell |
| 2:02.7 | you, for you men out there, the biggest turnoff for a woman is when she doesn't feel safe |
| 2:08.9 | in her marriage. And so that's so important that you are careful with your words, with your |
| 2:16.4 | argument. So we're going to talk a lot about that. |
| 2:19.2 | And before I dive in further, I want to invite you to go to delightyourmarriage.com |
| 2:24.4 | slash five tips, T-I-P-S. If you want the top five tips, I have for seduction. And once you get |
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