228: Encore: What Should I Do When Other Parents Host Wild Parties?

Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens

Dr. Lisa Damour/Reena Ninan

Kids & Family, Mental Health, Parenting, Health & Fitness

4.8 • 720 Ratings

🗓️ 15 July 2025

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Your teen wants to go to a party—but you’re worried about underage drinking, peer pressure, and safety. In this can’t-miss encore, Dr. Lisa & Reena outline how to talk with your teen about parties, risks, and consequences—without shutting down the conversation. ________________ Ask Lisa: The Psychology of Raising Tweens & Teens is the essential podcast for parents seeking expert guidance, tested strategies, and psychological insights on raising kids, especially tweens and teens. Join renowned clinical psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour and former journalist and mom of two Reena Ninan as they explore real-life parenting challenges. Looking to learn more about how to boost kids’ resilience, build their confidence, or support their emotional well-being? Dr. Lisa and Reena have got you covered! Together they address listener questions about stress, anxiety, social media concerns, school pressures, and challenges in peer relationships. Each episode provides practical advice and science-backed solutions to help parents raise resilient, confident, and emotionally healthy kids. Tune in every week for the latest topics in parenting, child psychology, and family wellness. Get answers to your most pressing parenting questions. New episodes drop every Tuesday. Check out our Ask Lisa Podcast Playlists. Binge specific topics like Raising Sons, Staying Connected to Your Teen: https://www.youtube.com/@asklisapodcast/playlists ________________ Episode Keywords: teen parties, underage drinking, teen safety, parenting teens, peer pressure, house parties, high school social life, risky behavior prevention Show Keywords: ask lisa podcast, dr lisa damour, reena ninan, psychology, parenting, podcast, teens, tweens, parenting teens, parenting tweens, teen parenting, tween parenting, parenting tips, parenting advice, positive parenting, parenting podcast, teen behavior, tween challenges, raising tweens, raising teens, parenting hacks, parenting help, family dynamics, kids podcast, mental health, teen mental health, attachment styles, emotional intelligence

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0:00.0	Tell me a parenting issue everyone struggles with, with tweens and teens, but no one talks about.
0:06.9	Rina, I think a lot of people feel like they just don't know how to connect to their kid anymore.
0:12.3	I'm Rina Ninen and welcome to Ask Lisa, the Psychology of Parenting Podcast.
0:18.7	And I'm Dr. Lisa D'Amour.
0:20.3	We bring you science-back strategies for managing anxiety, discipline, intense emotions, and more.
0:26.6	We decode tough parenting challenges with tips that you can use right now.
0:32.0	So subscribe to Ask Lisa, the Psychology of Parenting Podcast, and join our YouTube community today.
0:37.8	We're here to help you untangle family life.
0:43.7	Encore episode 228.
0:45.5	What should I do when other parents host wild parties?
0:54.1	You trust your kid, but what about the house they're hanging out in?
0:58.4	When other parents have a different approach to rules, safety, or supervision, it's hard to know how or if you should speak up.
1:06.0	We talk through how to have honest conversations, set boundaries, and protect your child without alienating
1:11.8	other families. Here's an encore episode of what should I do when other parents host wild parties.
1:18.6	Okay, this is a topic that I feel comes up often if you have high school kids, and I'm glad we're
1:25.1	touching it. Yeah, no, it's a tricky one. This is a tricky one and sometimes even late middle school kids.
1:30.8	I hate to say it.
1:31.8	Yeah, right.
1:32.8	It could go across younger grades than one might expect.
1:35.5	I want to get right into this letter for you.
1:37.8	Hi, Dr. Lisa, I'm also a licensed clinical psychologist and I'm thrilled that a colleague
1:42.1	recommended your books to me.
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