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Tea with Queen and J.

#228 Cheers To The Durag

Tea with Queen and J.

Tea with Queen and J.

Society & Culture

4.9768 Ratings

🗓️ 5 November 2019

⏱️ 103 minutes

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Summary

Queen & J. are two womanist race nerds talking liberation, politics, and pop-culture over tea. Drink up! On this episode… Can you separate your gender expression from internalized misogyny? And by you I mean me. Do you remember your first durag? Internet etiquette, that bike story again, and over policing when underpolicing is working too good. This week’s hotlist - Black nepotism is lit, watch Southside and Sherman’s Showcase, daily affirmations, genderized kids toys, dress codes, sex toys, wear your durag (but not too tight), Allen Iverson, charter schools be wildin, public transportation propoganda and over policing, and mad other ish! Tweet us while you listen! #teawithqj @teawithqj and add #podin on twitter to help others discover Tea with Queen and J. podcast! WEBSITE www.TeaWithQueenAndJ.com SOCIAL MEDIA Twitter: twitter.com/teawithqj Instagram: Instagram.com/teawithqj Facebook: www.facebook.com/TeawithQueenandJ Tumblr: teawithqueenandj.tumblr.com SPONSOR FemAfric Website: https://www.femafric.com IG: @femafric https://www.instagram.com/femafric/ EMAIL & SPONSOR INQUIRIES teawithqueenandj@gmail.com DONATE www.paypal.me/teawithqj OR www.patreon.com/teawithqj EVENTS Sunday November 24th, Join Queen & Vanessa of Vagesteem for their Bad Bitch Affirmations: Affirming Our Sex Lives workshop at Cafe Con Libros in Brooklyn from 6-8pm. RSVP: http://www.msvixenmag.com/2019/10/bad-bitch-affirmations-affirming-our.html #PAYBLACKWOMEN Good Books: https://www.goodbooksatl.com/ NOTES & EXTRA TEA Visit https://www.vote411.org to find out who/what’s on the election ballot in your zip code! If you’re in NYC check out http://whosontheballot.org #SwipeItForward gofundme: https://www.gofundme.com/f/swipeitforward-back2school Moment In Black Hair reference link: https://www.thestar.com/edmonton/2019/10/29/edmonton-mother-banned-from-her-sons-school-still-waiting-for-an-apology.html That NYT article: https://www.nytimes.com/2018/12/04/nyregion/fare-evasion-new-york-city-subways.html This week’s closing clip features Cardi B. ad libs from “Pop Off”: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=htNidQ_hL2Y This episode was created, hosted and produced by Janicia & Naima with production support from Emeka Ochiagha Libations to our friend’s Domingo, Tokunbo, and D. Sindayiganza who help keep this show running by paying and supporting Black women. Libations to Diamond Stylz for our What We’re Watching intro! Libations to Ohene Cornelius for our show intro, keep up with him at https://ohenecornelius.com Libations to T.Flint for our News That's Not News intro! Find him at www.tflintvoiceovers.com/

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0:00.0

This week on Tea with Queen and Jay, can you separate your gender expression from internalized

0:04.7

misogyny?

0:05.5

And by you, I mean me.

0:07.0

Do you remember your first do-rag?

0:09.3

Internet etiquette, that bike story again, and over-policing when under-policing is working too good.

0:16.1

It's Tea with Queen and Jay people.

0:17.9

Drink up.

0:18.4

Tea with Queen of Jay people drink up.

0:34.6

Hello. Oh, brother. Hey, girl.

0:38.5

How you doing?

0:39.1

I'm good.

0:39.6

How are you?

0:40.3

I'm good.

0:42.1

As early as fuck, but I'm good.

0:44.4

As, oh shit, early as fuck.

0:44.8

We forgot.

0:45.9

We have a sponsor on this episode. Oh, my goodness.

0:47.1

That's exciting.

0:47.8

I like when we have sponsors.

0:49.2

I do too.

0:50.3

This week episode of Tiwukini J is sponsored by FemAfric.com.

0:55.5

Fem Afric is a hair extension company offering handmade, lightweight, reusable crochet twist.

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