Rainer Maria Rilka said be patient toward all that is unsolved in your heart and try to love the

questions themselves, like locker rooms and like books that are now written in a very foreign

tongue. Do not now see the answers which cannot be given you because you would not be able to live

them and the point is to live everything, live the questions now. Perhaps you will then gradually

without noticing it live along some distant day and to the answer. Welcome to the School of

Self-Image, where personal development meets style. Here's your hostess, master life coach,

Tanya Lee. Hi beautiful friends. It's so good to be recording another podcast because even though

I've been in your ear every Wednesday for the last four weeks, I haven't recorded a podcast for

over a month. I batched a bunch of podcasts because I decided to go and spend a month in Mexico and

part of that decision was simply because I was craving sunshine. I've been cold all winter and

my body needed some vitamin D. But the other part of my decision to go to Mexico is that I'm living

in a question which is what today's episode is all about. So many of my clients come to me

and are confused because they have life questions that they're trying to gain clarity around.

Questions like should I stay or go or where do I start or how do I grow my business or what is

my contribution to the world? What is my purpose? Who do I want to be? What do I want? And what often

happens is that they sit in their home with the same brain that's asking the question and also the

brain that's creating the confusion, trying to figure out the answers and they're putting so much

pressure on themselves and the more pressure that they put on themselves, it seems as if things become

even more cloudy, less clear. And I've been there. I know what this feeling is like. In fact,

sometimes I can have a question and my brain wants to do the same thing to me. But I've lived in

the questions my entire life. And I know that when you're willing to live in the question versus

trying to figure out the answer, that's where the most magical things can happen in your life.

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