Hello lovely humans I'm YOLi and you are listening to sex stories a

podcast where we hear details of other people's personal and professional sexy

lives in order to learn about ourselves and each other

so we can all lead fucking awesome lives.

And our guest today is here to share her expertise both personally and professionally.

She's a mid-30s-sis-het woman, a monogamous divorcee now engaged to her

new boo. She started a woman-focused porn company whose mission is to help people have great

sex based on her experience coming to her own sexuality as an adult.

She is into sensual dance and movement, overcoming kind of lingous anxiety,

and is practicing using her sex couch

with increasing regularity.

Welcome Lily Sparks.

Hello, hello, I'm so happy to be here.

I am so happy to have you here.

Could you pretty please start off by telling our sweet listeners if you had to rate yourself

on a sexual shameometer from one being totally shameless to tending so full of shame, where do you fall right now and

what has it looked like over the years?

I would say I'm a three right now, which maybe I'm like a two or a one,

but I just hang out with such amazing sex positive people all the time that you start to like have your

radar get a little fuzzy. You know I grew up in a conservative family where we did not talk about

sex and it always seemed like this family where we did not talk about sex.

And it always seemed like this awesome thing.

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