225. A Conversation About When You're "Confused" About How "He Feels"

Clearer, not Louder with Beatrice Kamau

Beatrice

Education, Self-improvement

4.8 • 3.4K Ratings

🗓️ 2 November 2023

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

If you're hunched over your phone with your magnifying glass out, organizing a conference call with ten of your girlfriends at once, and desperately trying to untangle whether the person you're "talking to" wants to be in a relationship with you…

He doesn't.

I say this with so much love: if you have to do this, you aren't actually confused at all about how he feels. You know he isn't interested in having a relationship…you just don't like that answer.

Desire is not ambiguous. Desire is CLEAR. Desire is BOLD. Desire doesn't dither in the background waiting its turn.

When a man desires you, you'll know. So let's talk about what it actually means when you're "confused" about what "he wants."

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0:00.0	Welcome to the Self-Love Fix Podcast.
0:09.5	I'm your host, the Eagle Whisperer, aka Beatrice, founder of the Self-Trust Alchemy Program,
0:15.6	formerly known as Self-Love Overcode Penancy, T-Addict, and a Self-Trust Embodiment Coach
0:21.2	teacher and mentor for deep, luxed bitches who aren't afraid of the dark.
0:26.6	I'm on a mission to redefine Self-Love, to redefine everything that you think you have to fix about yourself.
0:33.0	Your people pleasing, codependency, your past relationship, and so much more so that you can
0:38.6	alchemize these aspects of yourself into deep, reality-bending levels of self-trust
0:44.1	and next-level self-acceptance. In this podcast, we don't believe you need fixing.
0:49.2	Here, the only thing we repair is the way you currently view Self-Love,
0:54.6	manifestation, alignment, and dating and relationships. Welcome to the dark side,
0:59.4	where we play in the realm of astrology, ego work, shadow work, virtuality,
1:04.2	mask and fem work, and so much more. Oh, and lots of laughs. Welcome to Self-Love, redefine.
1:11.4	Welcome to the Self-Love Fix.
1:15.0	Hello, and welcome back to the Self-Love Fix Podcast. My name is Beatrice, and I'm your host.
1:21.1	Happy November. Happy season of holidays. I just love November, because I don't know,
1:27.7	things just start getting cozier and things slow down. Like, you spend more time with the people
1:33.4	you love with family, with friends, with your significant other, and it's just the best time of year.
1:40.0	Okay, this week we are getting into. I'm sure you already saw the title. He's just not that
1:47.8	interested. Okay, the point of this podcast is not to come here and shame you and bash you.
1:52.7	It's actually to be so lovingly honest that it inspires you to be honest with yourself,
1:58.8	and it leads to a positive change in your dating life. So this episode is really for the single
2:05.1	girlies who find that either they end up dating someone or quotations talking to which this language,
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