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HERself

224. How to Stop Taking Things Personally

HERself

Abby and Amy

Grow, Health & Fitness, Education, Mental Health, Parenting, Kids & Family, Opportunity, Honest, Real, Vulnerable, Purpose, Best Self, Self-improvement, Future, Comparison

4.81.7K Ratings

🗓️ 11 March 2024

⏱️ 57 minutes

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Summary

If you’ve been a longtime listener then you might recognize these voices. We have Emmalee and Jen from ShrinkChicks back on the show today. They are some of our favorite guests because they use their own life experiences when they’re talking about therapy. In this episode, we also give our own life experiences on times where we’ve taken things personally and how we’ve worked through them.


There are many reasons why we take things personally. Emmalee and Jen go through some examples and explain if these tendencies can be unlearned. A lot of it has to do with the way we were raised and now that most of us are raising kids of our own, we ask Emmalee and Jen how we can help our children not take things so personally themselves. If you’re currently stuck on something that you’ve taken personally, today’s guests walk us through some at-home therapy steps you can do to work yourself out of these types of situations.


This episode is going to call you out and call you in in the best ways. Jen and Emmalee are a wealth of information and have a way of putting things so that they are easy for everyone to understand. If you struggle with taking things personally, you’re not alone and you’re going to want to tune into this one.


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And so when we think about doing this, I also want you to keep in mind of the idea of self-compassion.

0:07.0

So I want you to model this very importantly for your children.

0:11.0

It's going to matter how your kids not only look at how you treat them, but they look at how you treat yourself.

0:21.0

I'm Amy and I'm Amy. Amy.

0:23.0

And I'm Abby, and as women, we are constantly comparing ourselves to others.

0:29.0

But your life isn't supposed to look like hers.

0:32.0

Being your best self means standing firm in your decisions

0:35.6

and always being willing to grow with a purpose. We get vulnerable and real with an honest look

0:41.1

into the challenges and triumphs we all face.

0:44.4

Every woman listening gets the opportunity to choose what life looks like for herself.

0:58.8

In this week's episode if you are a long time listener you will recognize these voices we have Emily and Jen from the Shrink Chicks back on the podcast today.

1:05.0

Abby and I, there are some of our favorite guests and one of the biggest reasons is they use

1:09.8

their own personal life experience when they're talking about therapy and I think that's so important and in this

1:16.1

episode Abby and I also give our own experiences on times where we've taken things too personally or we have felt like in a season

1:25.8

where we're taking things personally and how you can work on that. So I felt like

1:30.2

they gave us so many usable tips.

1:33.5

It's gonna call you out and call you in in the best ways.

1:37.6

And so I hope you guys really give this one a listen

1:40.0

because I know so many women struggle with this.

1:43.0

All right, ladies, today we're going to be talking all about taking things personally.

1:48.0

We know it's something that we have each had personal experience with, some more recent than

1:51.7

others, our community talks about this quite a bit.

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