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Delight Your Marriage

223-Make Intercourse More Pleasurable for Her. Interview with Ruth Buezis Part 1

Delight Your Marriage

Belah Rose

Health & Fitness, Religion & Spirituality, Sexuality, Christianity

4.7589 Ratings

🗓️ 24 September 2019

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

I'm so excited to chat with Ruth Buezis (author of Awaken Love) about how to transform your sex life  into something much deeper. 

 

Ruth started out her journey by talking about sex to 8 of her closest friends! Word spread and she's now sharing her journey to hundreds of women who used to be in the same boat as she was. 

 

We talk about Christian couples and the usual questions we get from them:

-How do I help my wife orgasm?

-How do I orgasm during intercourse (from wives)?

-How long should I last (from husbands)?

-What EXACTLY should I do (from both!)?

 

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Belah's book---Delight Your Husband: A Christian wife's manual to passion, confidence and oral sex---may be the tool God would use to bring light and joy to your marriage bed. 

If you're at a place of desire for change in intimacy in your marriage--men or women--consider signing up for a free Clarity Call ($500 value!) where you and Belah will dive deep into what's going on in your marriage and help you uncover what is blocking amazing intimacy! From couples that hadn't made love in years to couples who were in an affair--God has brought passion, healing and fun to these marriages!

She's currently offering this 40min Clarity Call opportunity to podcast listeners for free! Schedule here.

 

And as Ruth says, men can get so caught up in the mechanics -- but there is so much more to sex than just mechanics!

 

What are the things that husbands and wives can do DURING and AFTER intercourse instead of feeling pressured and worried?

 

There are actually SO MANY things couples can do to help remove the pressure!

 

Whether or not there's orgasm during intercourse, there are lots of things that CAN be done so it's always mutually enjoyable during intercourse. 

 

Other things we talk about:

- What if a husband finishes earlier?  

- What about gentlemen who last way longer than the women? 

- What makes sex better for HER?

- How God wants us to be excited about sex with our spouses

 

Also, if you'd like a free 1:1 Clarity Call with Belah -- a $500 value -- she is offering that free to her audience. Here you will get insights into what's blocking you from incredible intimacy in your marriage. Sign up for a time to speak to Belah at www.delightyourmarriage.com/call

 

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and inspiring

0:08.1

wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage.

0:13.9

Here's your host, Bella Rose.

0:20.8

Hi there, and welcome. This is Bella Rose. Thank you so much for joining me. If you would like to have a clarity call with me, that is 40 minutes of one-on-one undivided attention from myself to really help you move through what your obstacles are and understand what your next steps might be

0:39.6

to bring your marriage from possibly disaster to passion and love and joy together.

0:46.1

I'd love for you to go to www.

0:47.7

delight your marriage.com slash call, and that's a free call worth $500 that you and I can have together. Do that as soon as you

0:57.0

can. Awesome. Okay. So today on the show today I have Ruth Buseus and she's going to be talking

1:06.0

about how to make intercourse more pleasurable for your wife. So a wife or husband should listen to this, I think it gives a lot of insight and help.

1:15.0

And this is part one, part two is also really fantastic.

1:18.8

So let's dive in. All right. Welcome back, delight your marriage listener. I am so excited that you are joining me today. And I'm really stoked because I have this wonderful

1:46.8

woman sitting in front of me on my visual video camera.

1:51.8

Cross the country. That's right, across the country.

1:55.5

Ruth Wessos, who is here again to grace us with such great wisdom and knowledge and lived out wisdom

2:02.7

that she's walked alongside many others in this journey to really awakening love in marriages.

2:10.7

So welcome, Ruth.

2:11.9

Thank you for having me.

2:13.0

This is super fun.

2:15.0

I have, I think if I'd like to talk about anything, it's about talking about

2:19.0

sex.

2:21.7

You come to the right place. Yes.

2:25.3

Awesome, awesome. Well, like I said, we've talked a few times before, and this is just a really good,

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