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Been married a long time. Sometimes have people ask for advice about that if they know our marriage

they get to watch it okay how do you do that and of course we're far from perfect of course

of course of course we're still learning which is part of it too like there's still this dynamic

continue to learn to want to continue to learn yes right. We're not just going to drift.

Yeah.

So that's a thing in its own.

But I would tell some if they're getting married like in, you know, this summer or something,

you make your own culture together.

Hmm.

Not her family's culture from my perspective.

It's not my family's culture from her perspective.'re not doing that okay our ways of doing things we come up with our shared sensibilities our own

inside jokes our sense of humor that other people won't get all of that is golden you don't have

to repeat the atmosphere that you grew up in. You don't. We can confirm this.

Both of us can tell you. Like, we've been doing this long enough. Like, this has been totally

different than the dysfunction we both grew up with. I love this tweet from a guy. He said,

this is Tony P P on Twitter.

Okay.

Just being honest,

he says,

sometimes I have to remind myself

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