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Earn Your Happy

220: The Key to Unlocking Your BLISS!

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 22 March 2018

⏱️ 19 minutes

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Summary

Today I talk about being authentic as it’s one of the most important things you can follow throughout your lives. But for a lot of us, we find ourselves struggling to attract and connect with the people who we want to connect with. Personally, I discovered later on that it was because I wasn’t showing up fully as myself.   I didn’t want others to see that I was anything but “fine” because I didn’t want to be a burden. Instead, to receive much-needed validation, I constantly put myself in the role of fixer and peacekeeper. So in order to start showing my true self, I had to get vulnerable and share more of myself to others (something I still have to make an effort to do).   “If we don’t risk vulnerability and rejection, we will never actually have authentic connection.”   It won’t always go well, but when you take the risk, you leave yourself open to attract a tribe of people who will act as a safety net for you when you do face your fears. In my book, A Tribe Called Bliss, Be Authentic is one of 7 sacred agreements to creating relationships (I read an excerpt from the book during this episode).   Becoming authentic is actually following your joy and what lights you up. When we’re not following that it often has to do with the relationships we’re in. And sometimes we have to weed out the inauthentic relationships that are keeping us tied to the version of ourselves that we think we should show up as.   “You can’t be seen if you’re not showing up fully you.”   It’s time to get vulnerable and take risks and peel back all the layers of the real you. By doing this you’re able to attract your own tribe and attract all the people you’re meant to attract. Put simply:   “Stop trying to fit in and start trying to be more YOU.”   Imagine the incredibly powerful shift and movement we can all make with we join forces for good that cannot be stopped. I’m so excited to get this shift started on May 8!   -- In This Episode We Talk about:   What it means to be authentic Discovering and weeding out inauthenticity in your life Attracting who you are meant to attract How Lori’s A Tribe Called Bliss book works  Resources:   A Tribe Called Bliss by Lori Harder Now available for pre-order at loriharder.com/amazon   Join me on the A Tribe Called Bliss Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/groups/1571018952966750/   Check out my website at loriharder.com. Follow me on social media @LoriHarder on Instagram and Lori Harder on Facebook.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the Earn Your Happy Podcast.

0:11.8

I'm Lori Harder, founder of the Bliss Project 3 Time Fitness World Champion Fitness

0:16.7

Expert and Cover Model turned self-love junky lifestyle entrepreneur and author.

0:23.4

Each week I'll bring you a guest or a thought that will help you bust through your fears,

0:27.6

connect to your soul and get focused and clear so you can elevate your life, business

0:33.2

and relationships.

0:35.1

We don't wait until we're ready for someone to tell us we're good enough, we take what

0:39.6

we want and we annoy ourselves.

0:43.2

Get ready to earn, own, and unapologetically rock your happiness every single day.

0:51.5

Are you with me?

0:52.8

Here we go.

0:58.6

Welcome back to the Earn Your Happy Podcast and it's time for a quickie because there's

1:04.2

always time to fit in inspiration and my book is coming out.

1:11.4

I know that so many of you have pre-ordered it.

1:13.5

I know so many of you are excited to get it in your hands and I'm even more excited

1:18.0

to be quite honest because I know exactly what this book is going to do not only for you

1:23.0

but for your connections and your life.

1:26.8

So it really is all about breaking through superficial friendships to create real connections

1:31.8

and reach your highest potential but this book can actually be read on its own as well

1:37.8

and when you're ready for a tribe you can implement all of the things that are in the book.

1:43.0

So you guys if you are interested and want to grab this copy and have it on the day that

1:47.2

it comes out which is May 8th you need to put in your pre-orders now and that is at

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