220: Rejection, Abandonment, and Building more Confidence
Havilah's Podcast
Havilah Cunnington
4.9 • 2.2K Ratings
🗓️ 22 June 2022
⏱️ 38 minutes
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Summary
This week on the podcast, we’re chatting all about rejection, abandonment, and building confidence.
My dad’s story was one of abandonment, self-rejection, and a lack of confidence but once he found Christ, he was able to go after those things and find healing. I was raised in a home of love, connection, and safety but that generational thread that followed my dad through his life wanted nothing more than to knock on my door. I had the realization that the spirit of rejection and abandonment wanted to follow my story as well.
The narrative of self-rejection and abandonment can sound so familiar in our thoughts that it doesn’t even sound surprising to us. When we hear those negative narratives in our minds, we have a decision to make. We can either go into self-pity, or we can stay open to the people around us and realize God divinely orchestrates everything in our life. We have to learn how to reject self-abandonment in those moments.
Thanks so much for tuning in today! We have to break up with these narratives in our minds that keep us from living fully free!
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| 0:00.0 | Did you hear the news? We are launching a free 15-day study starting on June 28th. |
| 0:07.8 | Together, we're going through Havla's book, I Do Boundaries, Discover Your Power, |
| 0:12.0 | Protect What Matters, and Stop Feeling Bad About It. |
| 0:15.2 | So in this study, you're going to learn how to gain control of your life, |
| 0:18.2 | schedule, and emotions. |
| 0:19.8 | You're going to decide what you're called to in this season. It's set boundaries around it. |
| 0:24.1 | You're going to communicate your boundaries without fear of rejection or loss of friendship. |
| 0:28.6 | You're going to remove people who are behaving poorly from your life, |
| 0:31.7 | and you're going to protect what matters most to you without regret. |
| 0:35.3 | You don't want to miss this study. There's going to be daily activations, |
| 0:38.8 | scriptures, real-life experience, and application. |
| 0:42.1 | So this book and this study, we know it can change your life. |
| 0:45.8 | Go to truthtotable.com, sign up for the study, |
| 0:48.9 | grab a book, and join us on June 28th. |
| 0:53.0 | Thank you so much for tuning in to the Home with Havla Podcast. |
| 1:01.8 | We are so excited to hear. |
| 1:03.4 | And today, we're wrapping up a series where we have shared the top four most downloaded |
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| 1:09.9 | And if you missed the top three, make sure you go back. Of course, they are incredible |
| 1:13.5 | episodes. Today on the podcast, we're chatting all about rejection, abandonment, and building |
| 1:18.7 | confidence. Havla shares all about her dad's story, |
| 1:21.5 | how it affected her life, and how she was able to seek God, close her ears to those |
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